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    Sunday, Feb 22, 2009 8:27AM / Standard Entry / Members only
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    Yesterday, i hosted a little feast gathering at my new place, just a few close friends who i got to know many years ago, so not quite a house warming party in my opinion. I guess it turned out not so bad, i managed to keep them and myself happy, until a couple of them just ruined it for me. I do not wish to expand on how and why. I just want to write about how i am as a person, when it comes to friendship. People often think of me as a man who is loyal to his friends. I guess they are right, however by being so, i do expect them to respect me in return.  

    May be this is too much to ask for. At least it seems so to me.

    My disappointment is too much to bear, woke up at six, eyes wide opened, may be its the wine, but mainly, a little heart broken. Sorry for bringing this up. I guess i m not forgiving enough, this is something i find increasingly difficult, towards my closest friends, even my family at times. But dont worry folks, i have learnt to adjust my tolerance from bitterness to positive thinking. I will find something to do today, that will make myself happy and i ll be back on my feet in no time; how about that? Time to readjust my pitiful self esteem^^  

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  • amychen0709
    posted on Saturday, Feb 27, 2010 10:28PM [Report]
    PARTY不要请小夫妻,能把你气死相不相信
  • sweuiuiui
    posted on Saturday, Feb 28, 2009 10:23PM [Report]
    其实,虽然我不是特了解你,
    但是印象中你还是个比较真诚的人。
    但是,人不能去绝对得信任谁谁谁,因为大家都是不同的个体。特别你那个圈子(不止是娱乐圈)唉。。。。。。少喝点酒吧。催化脑神经坏死可不是个明智的事情。
    当然你也不要因为这就对什么什么绝望。换个灵魂寄托比较好。没有十全十美的事。宽以待人吧。人生真的很短暂,混日子没什么意思。还不如找点自己真正感兴趣的事,只求过程的去追求它。
  • nitezstar
    posted on Saturday, Feb 28, 2009 5:09PM [Report]
    I guess you are simply reflecting your own thoughts. It takes a really really great person to not expect anything in return and im ashamed to say that Im not that great person. I always say, I can give somebody 10 sweets but only expect 1 sweet in return.thats probably the extent of my 'greatness'.
    Especially with close friends,one would expect more from them, and one would be even more upset when they did something that you didn't want from them.
  • papa88
    posted on Tuesday, Feb 24, 2009 7:02PM [Report]
    我觉得你可以有更好的发展
    你公司 经纪人给你的定位不正确
    某日突然发现你挺有才的

                             KK饭
  • iemma
    posted on Tuesday, Feb 24, 2009 5:17PM [Report]
    我不知道该如何安慰,关键时刻就不会说话是我的特点.
    今天24号了,想来阳光男生的你已经调整好了心情,加油,我们和你在一起,不管相识与否!
  • waterwater
    posted on Monday, Feb 23, 2009 11:17PM [Report]
    Be happy!!

    do some sport, play badminton la..
  • xiaomenglby
    posted on Monday, Feb 23, 2009 4:05PM [Report]
    相信一切都会好的。
    生活中难免会遇到些不开心的,我相信你做的都是对的。事情都过去了,调整好心情,希望你开心
  • paulinec
    Official artist 
    posted on Sunday, Feb 22, 2009 11:31PM [Report]
    ya..get it off your chest and move on....!
  • jennytay
    posted on Sunday, Feb 22, 2009 10:07PM [Report]
    要學會看開一點 ^^

    btw congrats, 你快要升級當舅舅了
  • rottendoubt
     
    posted on Sunday, Feb 22, 2009 7:32PM [Report]
    oh man, i hope you are alright!  =(
  • Jry7
    posted on Sunday, Feb 22, 2009 12:59PM [Report]
    i don't what happened ,but i know friendship is forever!
  • vivianl
    Official artist 
    posted on Sunday, Feb 22, 2009 9:32AM [Report]
    Sorry you had to go through that, but if that happens again, it's best to talk to these friends of yours. And if they really are true friends, they'd realize what they did was crappy and apologize.

    Anyway, hope you find something good to cheer you up!
  • luvli
    posted on Sunday, Feb 22, 2009 9:23AM [Report]
    I think this is you being a human...you're allowed ;)
    We have all been let down by friends or family at one time or another.. you just have to dust it off and keep moving because life is full of peeps that will let you down. You should not have to change who you are as a person to keep them in your life.. you are who you are and deserve the best!!!! keep laughing it up it all works out in the end :D
  • jennychelle
    posted on Sunday, Feb 22, 2009 8:56AM [Report]
    I have the same problem..I really have trouble forgiving people...especially my fam....but i'm glad you channel it in a possitive way..maybe i'll learn to do that to...

    So I hope all goes GREAT for you Vic in the future =)
  • MissScarlett
    posted on Sunday, Feb 22, 2009 8:39AM [Report]
    A good rule of thumb, especially when you have high standards for yourself:  Don't try to hold others to the standards you hold yourself. Accept people the way they are or you will always be disappointed. If a person's "quirks" are beyond what you can accept/tolerate, then why are they your friend? If a person's "quirks" are the source of distress for you, it may be time to remove them from your circle.

    Hope you find your smile today :)
  • Doctor
    posted on Sunday, Feb 22, 2009 8:37AM [Report]
    Hey ,friend,just find some outlet to make yourself feel comfortable.Hope u recover soon and happy.

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