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Old-fashioned romance from a secret admirer

I was standing in front of a restaurant with a group of friends saying our good-nights and a man who was passing by  very quickly said to me- "Hey this is for you" and proceeded to put in my hand a small piece of folded paper. He passed by so fast, I didn't see his face clearly but I thought he might have been wearing glasses. I thought the note most likely had his phone number written on it and that perhaps he was handing out his number to lots of girls that night as a new experimental pick-up tactic, but when I unfolded the paper, there was a long poem-like note on it.

It read:

THE FIRST TIME I SAW YOU: I was heading up the escalator by the gym. You were sitting with a friend, having a drink and chatting. Was that an American accent I detected? The sight of you made my stomach flutter....

THE SECOND TIME I SAW YOU: I was heading down the street and you were crossing the road toward me. We locked eyes. Maybe you've forgotten, but not I because seeing you again made my stomach flutter...

THE THIRD TIME I SAW YOU: You looked stunning as always, just exited a taxi and wearing a yellow dress. Hmm, someone was accompanying you.... B/F?... Well seeing you again made my stomach flutter...

THE NEXT TIME I SEE YOU: I'm giving you this note! I'm sure it will make my stomach flutter...The note was signed off with the guy's name and e-mail.

I was quite taken aback by the content of the note. It was incredibly romantic and borderline stalkerish but it was indeed flattering to know you've made such a strong impression on a stranger. It's funny how someone can just look at you and spin a story around what type of person they imagine you to be. The reality is probably never quite as good as the fantasy.

Interestingly, I've noticed a distinction between 'romantic' and 'stalker'. You classify crazy stunts and displays of undying affection as 'romantic' if you actually like the person back. If you don't like a person, the very same actions could be deemed 'creepy' or 'stalker'.

The whole 'love at first sight' concept makes me think of some medieval fairy-tale story where some chivalrous knight sees a damsel in distress in a tower somewhere, falls madly in love and devotes the rest of his life to fighting for her. I used to think- wow that's highly unlikely, a tad irrational yet insanely romantic. As I gained more experience with men, I realized this whole chivalrous knight/ price charming concept was for the most part a farce- then stuff like this happens.

It's not the dark ages, there are no men riding horses and jousting. It's 2008- a practical, progressive age when most people are single or divorced and have a jaded outlook on romantic love.  Who knows, this guy may be a weirdo stalker. To be honest, I wish I had gotten a better look at him. In any case-it's nice to know that romance does exist in this day and age :)

almost 16 years ago 0 likes  4 comments  0 shares
Mariejost 26 dsc00460
If you're intrigued enough to want to meet this guy, invite him out for coffee some place not near where you live, and show up with a male friend in tow. Then you'll be in charge of the meeting and can get a sense of where this guy is coming from, and if you need to tell him to bug off. With a male friend along, this guy knows there was a witness to the meeting and a witness to what you said to him (especially if you tell him to forget about it). If, on the other hand, this guy is genuinely interested in you, you're available and interested in meeting him, well, you'll get to set the tone for future meetings from a position of power, not subservience.
almost 16 years ago
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I thought that guy might have had alot of notes like that for other girls in his pocket too, but the incidents were too specific. I was wearing a yellow dress exiting a taxi with a male friend just before the Coach party about a week ago. BTW, thanks for the advice Leslie- think I may just send the guy and e-mail for his efforts. He obviously lives or works in my neighborhood and I'm sure I'll run into him soon enough and we'll chat then. The incident just seemed kind of unique.
almost 16 years ago
Kenjilui 15 blog profile
it sounds like a chapter from some kind of romance movie, would be nice to hear more follow up if you get to meet him later. :)
almost 16 years ago

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