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    Tuesday, Jan 6, 2009 10:20PM / Standard Entry / Members only
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    Video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-31tN2qBdnw


    I spent the morning in Wan Chai taking my nursemaid Gaga out to dim sum. As I went back to her place, a small room in Wan Chai, I decided to videotape her.

    She is an 84-year-old virgin, truly I believe.

    She's from the generation of "self-brush" women who decided to go to work as a girl rather than marrying a man. She came to work for my family before she turned 20, and she didn't leave us until she retired around 62 when we left for Canada.

    I was sincerely grateful for her, but I also felt sad that she had not had a romance that I knew of.

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  • wingliu
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    posted on Wednesday, Feb 11, 2009 9:10PM [Report]
    The "Brushed Up" ladies are proud to be virgins.  So I guess she does not feel sadden not have any romance.

    "Brushed Up" is a horrible thing (IMO) but they were conditioned to feel honored and loyal to serve their masters / ladies and their families.

    Almost like the English butlers.
  • lluu
    posted on Friday, Jan 30, 2009 9:38AM [Report]
    aww, she's so cute! reminds me of my grandma... =)
  • vivo
     
    posted on Friday, Jan 16, 2009 11:14PM [Report]
    watching her makes me feel sad.. trust is just myself getting too emotional.. but.. does she feel 'enough' in life?.. wonder what were the thoughts that had crossed her mind as she age.........
  • daxphelan
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    posted on Wednesday, Jan 7, 2009 4:24PM [Report]
    I want her number.
  • quentinlee
    Official artist 
    posted on Wednesday, Jan 7, 2009 3:46PM
    No... I don't think she ever had one. She is totally clueless about sexuality... I think. She is only has female friends her age.
  • rottendoubt
     
    posted on Wednesday, Jan 7, 2009 12:48PM [Report]
    you ever ask her if she had a bf?  or would that be mean?
  • janechu
     
    posted on Wednesday, Jan 7, 2009 1:36AM [Report]
    yea, I agree with AC100... she dedicated herself to your family... amazing! =) I am sure she's happy that you take her out to dim sum... hehee...
  • AsianChick100
    posted on Wednesday, Jan 7, 2009 1:23AM [Report]
    oh wow... that's very interesting. talk about dedication (to your family) ;b you guys must love her to bits!
  • paradox_din
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    posted on Wednesday, Jan 7, 2009 12:45AM [Report]
    I wanna see more.
  • backtoself
    posted on Tuesday, Jan 6, 2009 11:46PM [Report]
    Thanks for sharing :-)
    She seems like a wonderful woman and as I've said before you can see how much you care for her. You can also see how much see cares for you and your family.
    You can tell alot about a person's character by how they treat their elders, but more importantly how they treat all elders.
    All of our elders have so much love and wisdom and anyone would be a fool not to spend as much time as they can with them and try to soak up as much knowledge as possible. What they can teach us will never be found in a history book or in school.

    ps on a side note....I hope she played the lottery and won!! :-)
  • wendycheng
    Official artist 
    posted on Tuesday, Jan 6, 2009 11:21PM [Report]
    the "self-brush" woman is such an interesting topic. would love to see a whole documentary about it :)

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