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When Clients Take Too Much Design Control... wats will you do?

Clients: “Looks great. Let’s just move the main content down and change the font to a brighter red and Papyrus…” P/S: This topic are read from smashing magazine and it is real happen to us ... so just wanna ask how you guys deal with it especially if you are designer.

For me... if understand those client wanna take too much design control, 1st thing i will reject dealing with them. cause if someone find us to design, suspose know how our skill and experince of design rite? if dont trust on our design and experince, why looking for us on 1st place rite?

So how bout you?

Jerry is the manager of a restaurant. He is always in a good mood.
 
When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would always reply:
"If I were any better, I would be twins!"
 
Many of the waiters at his restaurant quit their jobs when he changed jobs,
so they could follow him around from restaurant to restaurant
 
Why.
  
If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was always there,
telling him how to look on the positive side of the situation.
 
Because Jerry was a natural motivator.
 
Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went
up to Jerry and asked him:
 
"I don't get it! No one can be a positive person all of the
time. How do you do it?"
 
Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, I
have two choices today. I can choose to be in a good mood or I
can choose to be in a bad mood.
 
I always choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad
happens, I can choose to be victim or I can choose to learn
from it. I always choose to learn from it.
 
Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to
accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life.
I always choose the positive side of life."
 
"But it's not always that easy,” I protested.
 
"Yes it is,"Jerry said.
 
"Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the
junk every situation is a choice. 
 
You choose how you react to situations.
 
You choose how people will affect your mood.
 
You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood.
 
It's your choice how you live your life."
 
Several years later, I heard that Jerry
accidentally did something you are never supposed to
do in the restaurant business.
 
He left the back door of his restaurant open
 
And then in the morning, he was robbed by three armed men.
 
While Jerry trying to open the safe box,his hand, shaking from
nervousness, slipped off the combination.
 
The robbers panicked and shot him.
 
Luckily, Jerry was found quickly and rushed to the hospital.
 
After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry
was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets
still in his body.…
 
I saw Jerry about six months after the accident.
 
When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better,
I'd be twins.Want to see my scars?"
 
I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through
his mind as the robbery took place.
 
"The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have
locked the back door," Jerry replied.
 
"Then, after they shot me, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two
choices: I could choose to live or could choose to die. I chose to live."
 
Jerry continued, "The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I
was going to be fine.
 
But when they wheeled me into the Emergency Room and I saw the expression on the
faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared.
 
In their eyes, I read...He's a dead man..
 
I knew I needed to take action." "What did you do?" I asked.
 
"Well, there was a big nurse shouting questions at me,"
said Jerry. "She asked if I was allergic to anything."
 
'Yes,' to bullets, I replied.
 
Over their laughter, I told them: “I am choosing to live.
Please operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.”
 
"Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also
because of his amazing attitude.
 
I learned from him that every day you have the choice to either
enjoy your life or to hate it.
 
The only thing that is truly yours -that no one can control or take from you –
is your attitude,
 
so if you can take care of that, everything else in life becomes much easier.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all my friends here! Wish you all have a wonderfull holiday and may all your dream come true on year 2010!

2010 is around the corner, it will be another busy year for me and for Gurlstudio.com. Hope that i can bring my studio to another level and wish GurlStudio will be on track to archived full time operating (current still as freelances studio). Wish me luck and hope i can archived some of my goal in 2010 d!

by 2010 wish will keep visiting here and keep update my life and share with ur guys!

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So those who from Malaysia if you are single, can try join as member and using their services.

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