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I have been missing for pass 3 years. Busy with works, family, health issue. Things are back to back and were pack until one got no time to sit down and what left is loosing yourself to the busy routine everyday.
Thanks to the bad economy, not much work, purely quotation then things just MIA, so purely sitting around at home. thinking how long am i able to sustain with current situation. But also made me to realise, where have the old "ME" gone? I miss the she, you know? The young "me" who...Read more
When one have quite some free time, will start thinking about many unimportant thing and started questioning from many expect.
As simple conversation made me wondering, for a friendship which is more than 20 yrs. How much can one person know you.
Personally, i felt each individual have 2 kind of behavior, 1 is how we behave while we are at work, another is while we were in a total relax stage chilling with friends. This 2 kind of behavior could be totally opposite. Human is a magical creature, g...Read more
Shinying Lim
Life has been busy for pass few years. No time for some me time. This year due to bad economy and unstable politic in my home country, business really slow down quite a lot. Is not a good news. But have to deal with it some how.
Since i got some spare time, i though to come back to blogging. So how's everyone doing? Who is still here?
Notice i always stress out when i have to deal with quotation. I know is so bad for a person's health.
I have been working on this thing for 3 yrs now and i am still not able to deal with it.
how can i feel better rather feeling tons of invisible weight on me? Deep sigh~
婚姻的成功取決於兩點：
一、找個好人。
二、自己做一個好人。
「就這麼簡單！」教授說。
如果這兩條沒有做到呢？
教授翻開掛圖的第二張，說：「那就變成4條了。」
一、容忍，幫助，幫助不好仍然容忍。
二、使容忍變成一種習慣。
三、在習慣中養成傻瓜的品性。
四、做傻瓜，並永遠做下去。
教授還未把這4條念完，臺下就喧嘩起來，有的說不行，
有的說這根本做不到。等大家靜下來，教授說：
「如果這4條做不到，你又想有一個穩固的婚姻，那你就得做到以下16條。」
一、不同時發脾氣。
二、除非有緊急事件，否則不要大聲吼叫。
三、爭執時,讓對方贏。
四、當天的爭執當天化解。
五、爭吵後回娘家或外出的時間不要超過8小時。
六、批評時話要出於愛。
七、隨時準備認錯道歉。
八、謠言傳來時，把它當成玩笑。
九、每月給他或她一晚自由的時間。
十、不要帶著氣上床。
十一、他或她回家時，你一定要在家。
十二、對方不讓你打擾時，堅持不去打擾。
十三、電話鈴響時，讓對方去接。
十四、口袋裏有多少錢要隨時報賬。Read more
