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  • blogging..

    Friday, Mar 13, 2009 7:50PM / Standard Entry

    Been thinking to blog.... wanna blog but just too tired to write.....have to recall all my past memories... aiseh....trying to figure out what i wanna write... something with substance... i noticed that all my blogs are very surface... errmm... what i mean is no substance & ooommhhh...time 2 change

  • adidas Original Quiz

    Thursday, Mar 12, 2009 9:11PM / Standard Entry

    Alivenotdead.com adidas Originals
    I just took the Originality quiz, take a look at my results!
    Naturally Original
    At first glance you may seem fairly average, but after two minutes of talking, it's clear that there's more to you than meets the eye. Despite not advertising your originality, you always keep your own unique perspective and creative approach to life. You're equally comfortable in any situation and fit in no matter where you go but you always stay true to yourself.
    1. Which of the following describes you and your group of friends?
      We are all unique in our own ways
    2. I am spontaneous and unpredictable
      Sometimes
    3. When I have to assemble something, I read the directions first
      Sometimes
    4. When I'm given a choice, I go with my "gut" instinct
      Sometimes
    5. I like "well-structured" assignments more than I like assignments that are "open-ended"
      Occasionally
    6. Pick up to 4 creative outlets you enjoy
      Photography
      Singing or playing an instrument
      Blogging
      Shopping
    7. Which alivenotdead.com artists do you find inspiring?
    8. When choosing clothes to buy you are most likely to
      Buy whatever I want - who cares what people think?
    9. When I say blue, what do you think of?
      adidas Originals
    10. Lastly, Tell us 10 things you want to do, try or experience before your 60th birthday?
      hike up Mt. Kinabalu, scuba diving, sky

  • 不要一直熬夜啊,對身子不好

    Thursday, Mar 5, 2009 11:56PM / Standard Entry

    For those who can read Chinese, read on.. this is being forwarded by email.. dunno whether it's true or not.  Overworked leads to death... 

     


    请珍惜我们的生命
               缺席的新郎----大家一定要看看,祝大家永远健康! 
     
    我痛恨自己没有在醒来的时候叫醒他,我心疼的让他再睡一下,他就永远得睡过去了。我最欣赏他的认真负责,成了看不见的杀手, 该怨谁?
    恨谁?怪谁呢?
     
    我们一起在广告公司玩设计,他的创意、我的完稿、我们的搭配是那么完美,以至于公司的上上下下把我们自然而然的送作堆……
    我喜欢的是他的拼劲,和他曾出不穷的点子,而且,他的幽默会在生活中随时随地出现,每每让我惊喜不止, 却万万没有想到,在我们的婚礼上,
    他也开了一个最残忍的玩笑……  我觉得自己非常幸福,得到这样认真负责又乐观进取的好男人。我们的相识也和他的顽皮个性一般,是充满戏剧化的。
    刚开始熟悉他的同事,因为,他的点子多而把他称作?梅花鹿?。久而久之,又嫌三个字太拗口,就简称他为鹿……
    我刚进公司的时候很不习惯,因为我姓陆,在校同学都叫我陆。每次有人叫他,我会下意识的应声。每次有人叫我,他也会笑嘻嘻的答应。
    他说:'你就别叫陆小姐,就叫鹿太太好啦!'从此,我就多了一个?鹿太?的绰号,以区别我们两人。
    尽管,我心中满不愿意,却又觉得挺好玩的。和他深入交往之后,就渐渐觉得当鹿太太应该是一件很快乐的事。他给我的欢笑,
    会让我却了烦重琐碎的美工,而觉得手中的完稿,每个表现都新鲜盎然起来……
     
    四年的交往,我们情投意合,进而同居三年,却一直发不出喜帖来。并不是我们有意长跑,而是他的职务越来越重要,工作也越来越烦重,
    我们根本腾不出假期来结婚。他升了官,责任在身,每次比稿都要他领队详细说明产品设计,公司的业务蒸蒸日上,他的个人时间就越来越少,
    我有时还陪他加班,送点吃吃喝喝的为他补身体。
    看他一支烟接着一支烟的抽,心疼的感觉他没办法体会,只说再拼一阵子就好。等存够了钱,我们可以开始自己创业就不必那么累了,
    我们的创业梦进行得很顺利。公司的老板也非常得器重他,累积的人脉、作品的口碑、得奖的荣誉、以及他谈笑风生的可爱个性,在在为他的事业加分。
    我觉得自己非常幸福,得到这样认真负责又乐观进取的好男人。我欣喜万分,梦想当新娘的画面早在我心头反反复覆几十遍。
    我的怀孕,来得不知是不是时候,从忙碌的工作中,发现不适的异样,检查出来已经三个多月时,我非常的懊恼,认为他这样没日没夜的工作,
    不该在这个时候烦扰他,但是,他非常开心,当场就大声的说:'陆太,嫁给我吧!正正式式的当鹿太吧!'全办公室响起如雷的掌声,
    我的泪也欢喜的夺眶而出……七年的爱情长跑,终于要跑上红毯彼端,我欣喜万分,梦想当新娘的画早在我心头反反复复几十遍。
     
     
    我们趁着肚子没有明显凸出时赶快去拍婚纱照。这家老客户跟他很熟,拍了比别人多三倍的底片,穿的礼服、选的地点、做的表情都是鹿自己设计的,
    他说一辈子只结一次婚,一定要搞笑一点,让人永远难忘。老板很大手笔送我们二十万的礼金,说是给他的创业基金,从此变成了同行,大家要互相帮忙。
    他高高兴兴的答应在婚前完成最后一批比稿设计,我先辞去工作,一则孕吐难过,二则婚前有许多事要忙,他都没时间弄,我就只能为他分担我们家里的事,好让他在公司忙得没有后顾之忧。
    他几乎是每天加班到早上六点才回家,迷迷糊糊睡到中午又回公司继续上班。连续一个礼拜终于交出了所有的设计稿,也交接所有的业务,离我们的婚礼
    只剩下不到三十个小时,我劝他什么是都别管,还是先睡一下吧!我们如何相信一个年轻力壮,从无宿疾的顽强生命,一睡成永眠婚礼。倒数计时的最后
    一天,他一睡就没有醒过来,他睡了十二个小时,清晨我醒来时,悄悄过去吻他,他的鼻息还非常均匀,可爱的长睫毛还闪一两下,好像在梦中还有什么
    歪点子一样,我觉得幸福塞满胸臆。漫长的做脸、上妆、弄头发过程,其实他可以不必陪我,弄完我去美容院旁的饭店休息室等他来就可以了。
    没想到我在饭店等了一个小时,手机和家中电话都没人接,他的亲戚一个也不见,后来,我才知道,他们一到家,发现他已经没有呼吸,连忙送到医院,
    医生判断是时下流行的过劳死,在连续加班后回家睡觉,一睡就成永眠。
     
    要我如何相信一个年轻力壮,从无宿疾的顽强生命,就这样因为体内长期运作失调,而造成器官内讧,衰竭而死?家人商量着该如何告诉怀孕的我,
    以及所有准备好大闹一场的同事好友们,喜筵成了非正式的告别式,所有参加婚礼的宾客都忍不住落泪。我呆在新娘休息室,抱着他试穿过的西庄礼
    服不肯放,我痛恨自己没有在醒来时叫醒他,我心疼的让他再睡一下,他就永远得睡过去了。公司的老板内疚万分,他的父母则伤心得连话都不跟我
    说一句。我肚子里来不及见到亲爹的孩子,更是一阵阵作呕得提醒我,我最欣赏他的认真负责,成了看不见的杀手,我连恨都没法去恨,该怨谁?恨谁?
    怪谁呢?
     
    (看完只有一个感想,工作虽然重要身体健康更重要)沉重的话题:一个97级的名校高才生,毕业后进微软的,上月死了,只不过25岁的黄金年龄,
    珍视自己的生命吧,大家。对自己好一点。
     
    早一点睡,这件事是真的,因为一个朋友就在联旭当设计,死掉的人都还是她熟悉的同事。她同事死前每天加班到早上六点才回家,睡到中午又回公司
    继续上班,连续五天最后一天睡一睡就没醒过来了,死前都很健康无任何心脏方面的疾病。其实这已经是她们公司第三个过? 希望大家能随时注意自
    己的身体状况。
     
    对了,今天听到一个悲伤的消息。广告界的好青年,又挂了一人了。此人是联旭的,是业务还是设计我也搞不清楚,来过我们公司几次。前几天在连续加班后
    的某晚, 回家睡觉后第二天就叫不醒,挂了。奇的是,约二个月前,也是联旭的一位女生业务,也是这样,不过她是离职后第二天,还是第几天,睡一觉就起不来了。
    医生说是猝死,推测是过劳。
    总之,昨天和前天,晚上九点联旭就全部关灯,大家都不加班了。大家要好好保重身体呢。
    发生迹象:原本一向身体健康,时常运动(打篮球)但在近日连续熬夜数晚,经过数日后,突然第二天起床会觉得很疲劳!一闭眼就想睡觉!
    (跟前一日熬夜的感觉不同),而且会腰酸背痛,但一到晚上精神又好起来!
    别以为这是小事!根据中医的看法,是因过劳而造成体内器官阴阳失调,就是体内器官起内讧,互相打架,最后造成器官衰竭而死
     
    医生建议:晚上10:00前最好上床休息,中午尽可能睡半小时到一小时的午觉(午睡一小时抵过晚上睡三小时),年轻人一天至少要睡足八小时!
    那些经常半夜不睡觉的人!!收到没!收到没!!收到就早点睡啦!还看!
     


  • Travel bug hits me

    Wednesday, Feb 18, 2009 11:31PM / Standard Entry

    These few days, my mind always think of holidays & travel travel travel... Yeah my heart is yearning to go travel again. I just came back from holidays in December last year..... In my mind, thinking of Bali, Angkor Wat, Chiengmai, Ko Samui...domestic destinations thinking of Mulu Caves & Royal Belum. I love nature adventure type of travel...Kota Kinabalu is one of my favourite destinations so far..... I love KK... still going to conquer Mt. Kinabalu...hopefully this year. Anyone wana go 2gether?


    Some pics taken during my trip to KK in 2006. Plenty of adventures....
    Mount Kinabalu, Pulau Tiga (the first season of Survivor is being flimed there), volcano mud at Pulau 3, Tip of Borneo

  • AnD gathering - postponed

    Sunday, Feb 8, 2009 1:25PM / Standard Entry

    Hi all,

    Due to low no. of members who's available today, we are going to postpone the gathering to 22 February 2009 coz we would like more people to turn up coz more people will be more fun.  I've few suggestions on the location:

    1. Jaya One

    2. Pavillion

    3. The Curve

    4. Mid Valley

    5. 1 Utama

    Which one u prefer?  I really hope more members can turn up on 22 February 2009.  Time & venue to be confirmed.  JessicaC has gathering cum movie watching with other members of Vanness Fan Club on 22 Feb 2009.  She suggested that we can join in for the gathering cum movie watching with them.  2 in 1. What is your preference? 

    Looking forward for your feedback & suggestions.

    Thanks & cheers,

    Wildorchid

     

     


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