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Mel Skippy
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Friends....

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People are more than what we see. It takes me a long time to trust someone, but on the rare occasion, I open up to people. When I do, I find it very mentally and physically exhausting. I think this is because I have learned to keep things inside and just "deal with things" myself.

I am 30, and I have been dealt a pretty crappie hand of cards, but, its how they were dealt, and I cant change that, there is a reason for it, and there is no point being sorry for myself, or "pity me" coz, that’s not what I want. At times I have been very hurt and upset by things and people that were on my life, with things that were said, or actions that have happened, but at the end of the day, I decided to ignore them, and just hold my head up high, and move on to people that are not like that.

Recently I have realized how important my friends are. You need to really understand, that there are people that really care about you, and want to help, listen and look after you. Even if it is the other side of the world, even if they are next door, there is always SOMEONE that cares. Even if you think you’re alone and think nobody will listen, I can assure you that there is someone. Fate brings us these people, and for that I a very grateful. I am especially grateful I have a handful of these people.

A wise friend of mine and I were having a conversation and I was saying I hope I never hurt you (meaning that I appreciate their friendship so much, and would hate to lose it), their reply was "you would only be hurting yourself" this is so true. If I did something to them, it will just turn a circle and come back to bite me on the ass, coz it would be my fault. I would lose a friend and I would feel guilt. Why would you want to hurt someone you care about, lie, try to deceive them whatever...? I think people do this to make them feel better about themselves. I wouldn't ever hurt any of my friends; I speak my mind if I feel something is out of place. I am honest, sincere and forgiving.

I thank my friends who make me laugh, make me feel good, and help me up when I’m down rock bottom. I would do anything for you guys! I am the luckiest person in the world to have you.You all know who you are!!!!  

 "What goes around comes back around"... Karma....

 

 

Dance as though no one is watching you,

Love as though you have never loved before,

Sing as though no one can hear you,

Live as though heaven is on earth..... ~ Unknown  

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As the song goes; "I get by with a little help from my friends"
over 10 years ago
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Hey Hey Friendship is the golden ribbon that ties the world together :)
over 10 years ago

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