Relationships...what a headache

Announcement

Listen folks...I'll announce something when i win the MEGA MILLION! as of right now..i don't have any freakin announcements. thanks for stopping by my boring blog entries.

Blog entries

Previous |

Next |

All

Relationships...what a headache
Wednesday, May 14, 2008 3:11AM / Standard Entry / Members only
8 comments

Let me just tell you all that my luck is just NOT there. So i met someone lately and found that he was sooooooooo cool. It's hard to meet someone that you click with off the bat. So today I told him that I am interested in getting to know him better...and he tells me he just started dating a girl who he "likes but not sure of" b/c he wants to test it out. And then...he continues by saying that i didn't give him the signals to tell him i was interested. AM I THAT LATE? we only met two weeks ago and talking to him everyday made me more interested in him. Things need time. So now i am at a dead end... is this unfortunate? We are now in the "friend's mode" supposedly.

PLEASE ADVISE...

Entry comments (8)

Please login or sign up for FREE in order to add a comment.
akashinobi
posted on Tuesday, Aug 26, 2008 3:02PM [Report]

Hello, making you to be on the side-shelf of books ain't gonna make you happy or end the day with a smile but more of like a facade. Keep on making more friends and give yourself time to pass through. There's always someone for us. Be glad that you know him to be this way rather than a tad too late.

By then it'll be too late as you'll be at a loss of what to do. If a guy didn't choose you to be his partner then it's HIS LOSS and not yours. So don't say that to yourself for you deserve someone BETTER! :)

Well i'll stopped at this point. Good luck in getting to know the next guy that you fancies next. :)

*Cheers*
JasonChau
posted on Thursday, Aug 14, 2008 2:51AM [Report]

Hmm..sounds like he's someone who is what we say in Chinese a 'one foot on two boats' kinda guy.

Sadly there are guys who do this. They don't want to lose out and so when they date they try to give themselves an excuse to have 'somebody else' ie. a second date/partner of choice to fall back on should things not work out between their first partner.

Regardless of how well you think you know him or how interesting he is, personally I think he's a player of sorts. Better to find somebody else because this guy doesn't seem like he's gonna be the faithful type.
stormy1
posted on Thursday, Jul 24, 2008 2:25AM [Report]

God will put the person your are meant to be with in your life.
All you can do is be you and see how things fall.
He may be a great guy,but something tells me he's may not be a one woman guy.
You know the ' I bored maybe there is someone else out there.'
Just see where God with him.
Kim
jnaya
posted on Wednesday, Jul 23, 2008 5:57AM [Report]

Believe me: How I wish to be that guy!!!

Is he blind, righ? What a waste!
elle75
posted on Friday, Jun 27, 2008 7:10AM [Report]

Oh gosh, I can't believe he pulled that on you. Definitely a player...it's a two way street, he could have ask you out as well...You're not too late....it's better knowing that now. He's dating someone but want to keep you around just in case...it seemed off, doesn't sound right to me. Sorry, I'm terrible with relationship too...
Good luck!!!
JustKelly
posted on Thursday, May 15, 2008 11:49PM [Report]

I understand your dilema. You don't want my advice. I'm the dumb girl who waits around for the guy. I know.....I'm pathetic! :)
pongza
posted on Wednesday, May 14, 2008 4:33AM [Report]

Well personally, I say leave it and let it be. Why? Because, do you want to be his second choice and feel that way?
Reni Wong
posted on Wednesday, May 14, 2008 4:30AM [Report]

why don't you ask him striaght?

My blog More entries >

Cat Fight= Girls = it's soooooo TRUE

Wednesday, Jul 23, 2008 10:21PM (2 comments)
aaaaaaahhhhh...

Wednesday, Jun 4, 2008 12:00AM (2 comments)
Just relaxing on my bed

Wednesday, May 21, 2008 10:52PM (2 comments)
Friday 4/25/08 Event....

Thursday, Apr 24, 2008 10:14PM
More entries >