Yesterday i had a lil issue with a coworker of mine. I am a very straight forward kinda person and efficient with work.  So i tell this girl some info so she could do her part of the work...when i told her she didn't respond...so i told her again...then she said she was not listening cause she was busy doing something (i have no idea what) and to email her. Which is quite annoying b/c she complains that i always repeat myself a million times (reason: b/c she doesn't listen). I couldn't understand why she couldn't listen for 1 min. it was work related AND she wasn't on the phone or anything. it doesn't take too long to jog a sentence down.  anyhoo... i emailed her.

that got me annoyed already.

Then...

when i gave her a list of things for her to do. a while later, i said "after you finish...just give me the list back cause i need it." she THROWS me this crumbled paper which she already threw in the garbage.  I found that soooo rude. So i said..."are you retarded? i need this info"

Then she goes on saying that i don't need to repeat myself...and continues to yap away.  At that point, i said "i don't want to argue with you...i am done talking to you for the day"

So that's the whole issue w/ her. What do you guys think?

Here's my point of view:

1. do your work

2. don't throw away info that i give cause i need it back

3. it is very rude to literally THROW a crumbled piece of paper back on my desk! at least have the courtesy to open it up and put it on my desk. 

4. i didn't want to keep arguing so i told her the conversation is over cause it wasn't going anywhere and i didn't want to say anything that would be hurtful.

Let me just tell you all that my luck is just NOT there. So i met someone lately and found that he was sooooooooo cool.  It's hard to meet someone that you click with off the bat.  So today I told him that I am interested in getting to know him better...and he tells me he just started dating a girl who he "likes but not sure of" b/c he wants to test it out.   And then...he continues by saying that i didn't give him the signals to tell him i was interested. AM I THAT LATE? we only met two weeks ago and talking to him everyday made me more interested in him.  Things need time.  So now i am at a dead end... is this unfortunate?  We are now in the "friend's mode" supposedly.

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