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影響配偶的 10句話
Wednesday, Oct 14, 2009 6:34PM / Standard Entry / OUR LIVES
不如我先答下列問題再討論
‧會否將收入告知配偶: 如實告訴#‧將公司發生事告知配偶: 經常‧配偶是否明白自己工作感受: 不太明白#‧哪些工作問題最影響夫婦生活: 工時過長#‧是否擔心伴侶有婚外情: 唔擔心‧為何擔心: 因為不認識配偶的工作夥伴#也是調查結果中出現頻率最高的答案原本很多伴侶在工作和維繫感情之間都有相近的問題我和小J跟大部人一樣，覺得伴侶不明白對方的工作感受
他很少將公司發生事告知伴侶，會擔心我工作上常常要接觸異性，同時又是少數常常怕我有"婚外情"的份子
最近又說了 "令配偶最感傷害" 的話，基本上下列 5句都非常令人討厭之前他可是常常把"最鍋心的5句"放在口邊的啊
人當然就比較喜歡聽好話，那怕是有點點的信口開河既然大家的工作的壓力是很難令對方明白，那今天就在回家的時候說一點甜言蜜語為你所愛的人打打氣吧
婚姻與工作關係調查部份結果
會否將收入告知配偶
如實告訴： 70.4%
不告訴： 21.4%
不如實告訴(如報細數)： 7%
將公司發生事告知配偶
經常： 16.3%
間中： 35.9%
很少及完全沒有： 47.8%
配偶是否明白自己工作感受
完全明白： 13.9%
不太明白： 39%
完全不明白： 12.7%
哪些工作問題最影響夫婦生活*
工時過長： 41.6%
公司裁員及減薪： 22.5%
須經常到外地或內地工作： 9.8%
是否擔心伴侶有婚外情
完全唔擔心： 52.6%
唔擔心： 32.3%
擔心及十分擔心： 15%
(唔擔心原因包括「佢唔靚仔」、「年紀大無人吼」及「佢無市場」等....wait....我唔係E D原因呀！！)
為何擔心*
經常要應酬： 35%
配偶工作上常接觸異性： 33.3%
因為不認識配偶的工作夥伴： 21.7%
(其他原因還包括「E家啲女仔好主動」、「配偶對人太好」、「老公係高層好多女下屬」E幾個都中WOR!!)
影響配偶的 10句話
-最令配偶感窩心-
1.做乜我都會支持你
2.要你咁辛苦，對唔住
3.你好叻呀
4.我會照顧你一生一世
5.你都仲係好似以前咁靚 係呀係呀我最喜歡了-最令配偶感傷害-
1.同你一齊好辛苦
2.不如大家分開吓 ...邊個講過呀？！
3.你執吓個樣啦 ....SHIT...真係好鬼HURT架...
4.見到你我想死
5.你睇吓人哋搵多你幾多
資料來源：盈力僱員服務顧問/蘋果日報
近一個月的心情超差，無論我的態度好壞小 J一律用不理不睬來回應問是為什麼就用 "想對我好一點但真的做不到
"來推卻其實都很明顯是藉口，既然不能再做到"對我好"這一點如果向任何一個眼光清晰的第三者都會了解到是怎樣一回事吧保持聯絡像是日程所需，交代一下去向，當中沒有情感涉及
昨天我建議用溫柔好聽的甜言令關係降溫，因為從言語或行為我已完全不覺得他喜歡我結果今天一通電話還是換來
"我已經主動打電話來了你想怎樣?!" 的回應按他的說法，就算要做平時拍拖講電話等事也是很辛苦很有壓力，做到已經好進步不過我已經不打算強求了，是他煩了玩厭了什麼都好
就如之前所說 : 「時間到了，就要停了。沒什麼好說的。可以是自願，更可能是被迫。放手一博、問心無愧就好。反而不是得到，就是失去。」不過我得好好努力減少流淚次數來保持美貌今天，我開始放棄可能引導到你向正面方向前進的想法。你需要時間？ TAKE YOUR TIME，好運的話我還在遠處等著，或已黯然離去。
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Email to Noiz
Monday, Sep 28, 2009 2:40AM / Standard Entry / OUR LIVES
我還有閒情寫點什麼，不過上次發的電郵都沒回覆倒不如改為寫給自己
你真是個詞不達意的人，可是心思細密。我也會追求幸福。眼前這是把握還是強求？你懂得分辨嗎？我不懂。以為是在把握著什麼強求著什麼。但會不會都是我的強求呢？也許都不是，並沒有把握到什麼也強求不了什麼。可是，我認為，正是因為有堅持著強求著，才有痛苦的感覺。總有人愛得多，總有人覺得得到的少。這個啊… 該由誰去定奪呢？ 你說呢…？我們像玩蹺蹺板，玩得開心時大家都很配合。大家都想玩時就一切都是美好的。要麼快、要麼慢，萬事有商量。但有一天你玩厭了累了，覺得同一個上落的動作好無聊。其實就是，時間到了，就要停了。沒什麼好說的。如果你覺得受傷了，其實我也趺得很重。我和你的差別，就在於一個是充滿期待的心。一個是沒有特別心。因。我沒法預測你對我的期望。所以。令你失望了。我也很罪惡啊。那。我就放手一博，問心無愧就好。反正不是得到，就是失去。可能是自願，更可能是被迫的 。但我相信最重要的是過程啊 。那個過程。the bird and the bee - witch:
Yes, I am a witchAnd I have conjured youFor my biddingAnd all my charms and all my accidentsAre all just instrumentsTo lock you up#How could I know my spell was broke?I am nothing like the girl you thought I was without your loveHow could I haunt you, keep you closeWhen you can see my seams, the fraying of my dress?I am defenselessYes, I am a carnivalA house of mirrorsAnd I will con youAnd all my tricks and all my magicWill keep you dizzyWith desire#, #
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我很累 ''I'm too tired''
Thursday, Sep 17, 2009 7:03PM / Standard Entry / OUR LIVES
NahNahNah~~~~!! 這也是我不時要面對的狀況。
J 醫生工務繁忙，回家還要被老婆碎碎唸，精神壓力爆燈
晚上當我在扭扭捏捏時，他就知道有麻煩了
恰巧，他最常用的理由就是 'I'm too tired''
有時都會說 "I'VE GOT TO GET UP EARLY IN THE MORNING"
噢噢這個研究結果真令人擔心...."one in three men said they made excuses because they didn't fancy their wife or lover anymore"
當然，我跟小J 在不同時間上床睡覺完全不是因為AVOID SEX
我想睡覺的時間的確比他早很多啊…！
OnePoll (Tired)Written: Wednesday 16th September, 2009
SORRY LOVE
''Not tonight, I've got a headache'' has lost its place as the most common sex excuse - and been replaced by ''I'm too tired''.
''I've got a headache'' has now fallen to number three in the list behind ''I'm not in the mood''.
Other white lies to make the top five included ''I've got to get up early in the morning'' and ''I'm pre-occupied with work''.
The trend emerged in a study of 4,000 adults which also revealed one in five Brits regularly make excuses to avoid having sex.
Seven out of ten said they were often too exhausted to enjoy sex and four out of ten said the recession had played havoc with their sex life.
Yesterday a spokesman for www.OnePoll.com, which carried out the study, said: ''The humble headache has had its day as far as excuses are concerned.
''Tiredness plays a much bigger part in our reasons not to climb between the sheets these days and enjoy some quality time together.
''And its hardly surprising when we are all working longer hours than ever before and have so many things to worry about.
''Fears over whether will be able to pay our mortgages or even whether we will have a job in a month's time are bound to affect our bedroom performance.
''It was intriguing to see just how the recession has affected our passion levels too.''
Bizarrely, the report also found men are more likely to make excuses than women with 27 per cent admitting they often avoided sex compared to 18 per cent of women.
But while one in two blokes said they made excuses because they were genuinely too tired to make love three quarters of women said they put their partner off because they couldn't be bothered.
Worryingly, one in three men said they made excuses because they didn't fancy their wife or lover anymore, compared to around one in five women who said they same thing.
Four out of ten women admitted pretending they were asleep compared to five out of ten men.
And four out of ten men said they avoided getting into bed at the same time as their partner in case they suggested sex.
One in in five women said they same thing.
Regionally women in the midlands are most likely to make excuses while men in
TOP TEN SEX EXCUSES
1. Too tired
2. I'm not in the mood
3. I've got a headache
4. I've got to get up in the morning
5. I'm pre-occupied with work
6. I'm angry with you
7. I can hear one of the children
8. You need a shower
9. I've got a bad back
10. Too soon in our relationship
Research conducted by global market research company www.onepoll.com
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my holiday + flu
Thursday, Aug 20, 2009 6:38PM / Standard Entry / OUR LIVES
現在就感冒菌是不可小看的，最近只要要發病的跡象都幾乎不可能自己康復，一定要看醫生才會痊癒這次的假期我發燒了3~4天，每一日都在忽冷忽熱中渡過，好不痛苦
剛離開sabah不算很好玩，很大原因是因為我的身份狀況令我很沒心情而且旅行我還是偏好「二人組合」、最多三個人有什麼去處都比較好處理，J醫生和我二人行的話就不用去不喜歡的景點吃飯時間等等都好控制些
畢竟我們的喜歡都接近其實我對渡假村式的活動…如打牌…是覺得很沒趣的…去海看魚的時間也比我想像中少很多，三天我們就用了4小時不夠去海吧？頭一日最尾一日都是什麼去行什麼買什麼…我都病都九彩…邊有力氣行
8 AUG我們去了當地的轉轉餐廳，吃細細碟的浪漫餐
食物有點奇怪，是因為我食慣了CHEAP野吧~~已經發病的我們覺得好暈
HAHAHHAHAA不過這個安排我好喜歡喔
如果可以多留KL幾日就好啦......
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今日才知道的
Tuesday, Jul 14, 2009 11:50PM / Standard Entry / OUR LIVES
今日才知道週年紀念trip落實的日期......今日才知道8月頭拍MV......好期待我們的3週年啊......假不是沒有，不過要怎樣請得到
我打算死LUR......希望LUR得到......唔得的話就.....其實我都唔知.......
只知道無論如何都要去到........反正公司只有我一個人，永不可能分身同時工作+返馬拉.....
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