nic~

国庆快乐！

国庆快乐！

Wow......That's a good news. :)

Yea, you have only one month left till your finals......
Same thing happens to me......:( And sometimes, it gets very annoying. Then I throw my books away and spend my whole day using PC. :D

Okay, I'll show her your message. :) And thanks for wishing her. :)
You are always welcome. :)

How are your exams going?

Thank you. :)

Do you know, my sister has the same birth date as you.......:) Same month, same year. :)

Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday, dear friend,
Happy Birthday to you. :)

May you always be happy, healthy and blessed. Amen.

Sorry for late reply. I was a bit busy with my studies.
I have been missing Nic so much these few days.....don't know why :D
I have really liked Nic's new look. He looks very young and handsome too. :)
You are welcome. :) How are you? What about your studies? I read that your exams are drawing in......Have you prepared for them? I will have to take exams the next month. I am preparing for them yet. :)

Hi!! :)

您身为两个孩子的母亲，就能否要点脸不？怎么穿成这样子，两个馒头都给露出来了，您是要拍第二批艳照么？！你让你的孩子情何以堪，给他们树立了什么榜样啊！！！还有你那批盲目支持你的粉丝，说穿得如此暴露也算“多才多艺”？！难道穿得越骚布料越少就越有才华？？？若真如此，难怪古人说女人无才便是德了！！

把丈夫诋毁得一文不值，现在才懂得反省，做得这么绝她居然还指望老公原谅她？对，夫妻本应互相包容才得以维持一段婚姻，但是男人的尊严就算被自己的妻子如此践踏却依然必须包容下去？

真不明白那群“我是女人所以支持张柏芝”的人是怎么想的。对，她爱儿子这是无可厚非的，但是就因为她生了两个孩子就是受害者这我没法赞同。

这些人不是说自己当了孩子的母亲所以能够体恤张的行为吗？难道伟大的母爱包括一而再再而三的犯错，不知悔改后就以儿子的性命作为赌注，威胁自己的丈夫吗？？难道伟大的母爱包括不让孩子上学把他们藏到国外，拿他们作为筹码，在众人面前秀母爱吗？？难道伟大的母爱包括和伤害自己和丈夫的人一笑泯恩仇却不敢与承认没法敢做敢当吗？

如果你们屡次这么做，丈夫又表示无限支持你，婚姻未曾破裂的话，好，你们大可大声地喊道：“我是女人所以我支持张柏芝！”

你是男是女，你都听不出来，那话是多么的虚伪吗，夫妻间，用这种方式表达感谢，你见过吗？我打个比喻，你爸爸会当作所有人的面发声明说感谢他的付出，却连老婆电话都舍不得打一个吗，我只是比喻，没有任何带攻击你家人的意思，我只是希望你看清楚，夫妻之间，什么是虚伪，什么是真，什么是假，如果他真的是个好男人，怎会容许流言满天飞，舍得让自己的老婆受伤害的男人，你还那么迷茫干嘛呢。/。。。

你这可恶下三滥没长心的贱女人！枉我们霆锋就算向媒体表态也感激你这么多年的付出，你居然下贱得先发制人把矛头直指霆锋！你长心了没！！淡定不了了！！！！

霆锋忙于拍戏就只能放那么几天假期，每次放假就立刻飞往香港。Quintus 生日也硬要抽出一天陪儿子。拍戏总是博命演出就为了对得起观众，把自己所有危险动作剪接成短篇送给儿子当作声如礼物，并告诉他：“I fight so you don't have to （我之所以那么拼命是为了让你过上好日子）。”结果他那亲爱的老婆为了抬高自己，居然乘刮台风时带着两个儿子除外郊游！这还真是前所未有伟大母爱的表现啊！明知自己老公不喜欢孩子走他以前走过的路不希望孩子成天在媒体面前曝光她居然惺惺作态的“偶遇”狗仔队跟拍，然后说“请别妨碍我和孩子姓马？”

我以前看她时霆锋的妻子所以爱屋及乌，还到处为了帮她澄清她和 CGX 的合照事件。我真的愚蠢的相信她深爱着霆锋，她不会伤害霆锋，这一切纯属炒作。结果呢，发现这一切对自己不利就反过来把一切责任推到老公身上。就应为他曾经包容过，他就有义务永远承受世俗的压力吗？就应为她懂得先发制人，她说的话就可信吗？别忘了，当初YZM 发生后，她那惊天动地的话就让世人对他刮目相看。现在居然不计前嫌藕断丝连了呢！厉害，影后啊，女神呀！！

很可笑，我还没骂你了你就已经恼羞成怒了？你急啥呢这是？

不好意思，我说话已经很客气了。我大可单刀直入一针见血的辱骂你，不过好歹你也是蜂蜜，我尊敬你。Not to mention actual criticisms, if you can't take constructive feedback at all, you really shouldn't be posting anything which is nonconstructive in the first place. Perhaps you are holding certain senior managerial positions that egged your ego? Just an intuition?

Ur msg ‘Sorry but I still find it rather challenging to interpret what you are saying. Could you kindly reorganize your sentence structure and summarize it?’…………again, did u realize tht u r criticizing ppl? 唔该你讲人之前先照下镜子！I don’t know u r not reading my msg thoroughly or u cannot understand but I always find tht u misinterpret my msg.For ur info.My earlier msg to u is replying ur msg paragraph by paragraph following ur sequence.
U also know 看来我们爱情的价值观各不相同. We keep talking also useless. But I just wanted to summarize tht, if 2 ppl choose to go into a marriage, they hav the responsibility to maintain it. Not like u mentioned, force to accept or carrying on even they r not willing to do so. The moment they step into marriages, they hav to take up a list of responsibilities. Which includes recognizing each other’s needs, communicating effectively, resolving conflict, healing past hurt, learning to make each other feel loved, respect both family in law and etc. this is a ‘MUST’ to build up a happy family. it is a rule of thumb before u and me were born! Yet, you don’t understand and you cannot accept this! Ur concept of starting a marriages is not at the right direction at the beginning. If everybody can do anything following their heart, especially in marriages… u r waiting to divorce. In my opinion, better don’t get marry. This is my point of view and I do not force u to accept. Time will prove to you as you step into marriages one day. Til then only u come and announce what you say is still true or not. Everybody also hope to have good memory, but yet, problems still persist. It cannot be the couple is facing zero problems throughout their entire marriage life.

Babe, u said:’我这个人是属于人不犯我，我不犯人的类型’….i remember u r the one who leaving me some unfriendly comments at the first place? All my comments in nic’s blog is addresses for him only. If u choose to speak on his behalf and criticize me, is tht a common re-action to speak back in this manner? 是你来我的留言箱倒乱在先，话说得也不客气，人家留言关你什事？需要经过你同意才留言吗？
Ur msg..’大家都是成年人。或许知识未必随着年龄而增长’….i guess u r too proud of urself til u 有点自负，自大。。…我不觉得这是个成熟的人会说的。话中带话？你若再把话说得那么不客气，别怪我反击咯！！

Sorry, but I don't speak to people who can't get his/her/it's basic grammar right. Hope this is not offensive:):):)

I think u misunderstood. I mean I spend 2 hr to write msg to nic and not u coz writing in chinese languages involves a tedious process typing the ‘pin yin’ and choosing for the word. Hence, plus the time to think of what to write it is abt 2 hr. I choose to reply u in English is because alphabet typing is a lot faster.not because I m expert in English.

It is amazingly tht u read through and put urself into nic’s shoes while reading my msg. I can say tht, u r nic’s die heart fans. Tht’s why u will have this kind of reaction. I m Cecilia and nic’s die heart fans tht’s why I will hav this kind of reaction. But our final destination is hoping them to do well in all aspects. I hope u understand this.
Again. I feel offence by your sentence(2ndly). U can always do tht at ur age of 18 but u definitely wont when u r at age of 30++. I repeated myself, if u think what u do is right, I got no objection. But pls do not expunge ppl’s right. Not saying tht I m knowledgeable at 30++, but I also been through 18 before. It is hard to explain to u on your reaction or deal with u at this age. I m sorry to say tht. But I really don’t want to involve this kind of discussion wt u. u just think back, do u have any similar argument wt anyone (parents, auntie, teacher or etc ) on some issue where u think they don’t understand u? maybe, u would think tht, I say ‘ if u don’t want to see pls don’t see’ is not constructive….i really cannot help but to emphasis again this is the only solution I have for u.

Again, it is an offensive sentence(3rd ly). I think I already replying u on this in my previous sentence. It is not tht I unable to read them but I got no time to read through. Being a mom and working women…it is ridiculous to spend time reading those. I just do my part to pass my msg to the artist. Tht’s all I want to do. Sorry to tell tht, I might not be replying u in future coz I really think this is not a profitable job.

I definitely can accept ur advice on 4th recommendation and improve on it. But as u put urself in my shoes, u like nic and Cecilia both. U will know what I think. Especially after u get married. U will know how is a man’s reaction and what role they play in sustaining a family. After 10 yrs of marriage..the ‘feeling of love’ will disappeared and left only responsibility. A women, after given birth to 2 kids, and getting older everyday…what kind of value we have to keep the man?if a man really don’t want to give out a steps, do you know how it will hurts and what is the subsequent things will happens? When u get marry one day and been though all these, u will understand. I been through the marriages for 8 yrs already.

On your 5th sentence, I do not understand what’s wrong with my sentence. if you don’t want to do, pls don’t do. Coz if assuming everything happen is real. Now the case is, nic on and off pass all his property and money to Cecilia. He do this at his on will and at the moment before the picture taking btw Cecilia and edison, he refuses to sign on some documents where he suppose to sign but he stop it. And the time Cecilia also bought a new propert which involve half a million tht needed him to be the borrower. I just assume tht he refuses to sign becoz of a few reasons…first, he get angry of the photo taking session…secondly, he angry Cecilia to make decision without discussing wt him at the first place. Or perhaps he don’t like to do this kind of investment? That’s y I given my comment accordingly to my assumption.

Yup. Actually this is what happening in every family for a women to keep some own pocket money (if no property or others) to prevent any unwanted things to happen in future. Mayb u cannot accept bcoz u r from a well being family or u r still too young to understand this. I didn’t said tht Cecilia is correct. I did leave her msg at her blog on this issue (if u got follow) www.alivenotdead.com/ceciliacheung i also blaming her for huting nic and hoping her to apologize and take necessary action. But very clear in mind tht, I hope them to be together again.


As commented by mr ‘wong jing’. He said, the issue is widely spread, it would be nothing actually happens. I feel tht this is true. If nothing is happening, it wont be widely spread by the media. But we don’t trust it 100% la. We can justify by our own mind.
Pls bear in mind tht most Malaysia can read,write and speak a lot of languages (English, malay , mandarin, Cantonese, hokkien).