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  musicnote

  Wednesday, Nov 25, 2009 11:14AM [Report]

  You will find someone who will be even better! Just keep your head up high
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   Ee Hoon Khoo

  Monday, Nov 23, 2009 4:17PM [Report]

  I hope you haven't have a tormenting Sunday.
  
  You should be very very happy. Your life would probably be worst off if you were with him, either you get a man who can't decide and can't make up his own mind or did but not strong enough to protect you from his family. Either, you are at the losing end not because you are undeserving or a fault of yours but because you have better luck with life then end up with a scumbag.
  
  I'm not doing very much right now. Planning on 15 days holiday to Beijing and Hong Kong. Already booked my tickets, got to just pack now.
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   Ee Hoon Khoo

  Sunday, Nov 22, 2009 1:26PM [Report]

  I wanted to say, trust me, you are much better off not being his life partner. No one wants a man like that. Also, I totally don't think he married her because he was forced to do so.  I guess we need to learn to filter truth from pure lies. Come on, honestly.
  
  Its hard to put everything down, quickly or to tell yourself that he is true to you and force by circumstances to leave you behind.
  
  Be kind and good to yourself.
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   Ee Hoon Khoo

  Sunday, Nov 22, 2009 10:43AM [Report]

  Something is just not quite right. How can he marry someone that he has just met once over someone he has been with for three years? This is the 20th century, pre-arranged marriage is a distant practice, unless he is not Chinese? Is he Indian?
  
  From your description, he definitely can't make his own decision and can't protect and stand up for the woman he love. He also did not assume responsibility for a three year relationship and the female party involved in this relationship, he is a coward for not revealing everything to you sooner also and causing your grieves. A person who cares for you and your wellbeing will not do that to you.  
  
  He has succumb to the pressure from his family? Its hard to believe. Michelle, you are very lucky that he decides to marry someone else. I can't believe he is just a naive and obedient man who is totally clueless and harmless. I'm sorry but I think that's what he has appeared to me.
  
  So keep away from him. I believe he will still hassle you later on.
  
  Some man has no sense of responsibility and they don't think with their head sometimes too and of course they always have the best excuse in this world, "all men make the same mistake!"
  
  Have a tremendously good and fun Sunday!
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  JasonChau

  Sunday, Nov 22, 2009 2:13AM [Report]

  Michelle....
  
  Hey don't mention it....that's what friends are for! : )
  
  As for your plans for next year...good for you! Hope it all works out and let us know how it goes!
  
  As for the camera....yes it's quite possible it was an insider job but the question is who? Our friend has employed many assistants before over the years and its very hard to tell who is the culprit here. Another thing I was told, was apparently sometimes they left the studio door open during work hours. So its possible when one of the assistants had the safe open, when they turned someone had come in between and snatched the equipment. Or even that one of the models/clients had caught what the number was on the safe, and thought to check on it later.....
  Either way it is suspicious because there's no sign of a break-in and it happened when the owner (our friend) was away on holiday. Coincidence? I think not..for sure it smells like an insider job. But who would know this? I think now most likely his closest friends, but he has hundreds (afaik)! So I dunno....all I know is he's letting the police sort it all out.....
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  JasonChau

  Saturday, Nov 21, 2009 7:39AM [Report]

  Hey Michelle.....
  
  It's good to hear you're doing ok......I'm happy for you! : ) At least I know you're in good shape now, and you've cleared your mind/mental past and the ghosts in your cupboard. It's important to always try to maintain a certain level of mental clarity and know what you want and where you stand in life, and to know that it is not your fault for what has occurred. The worst damage one could ever do in life is blame themselves for what has happened. Nobody should blame themselves (or others) for anything. If things happen the way they are, then they just naturally do, and there's nothing we could do about it. There's no point in thinking about it too much, because it benefits nobody. Rather, it's better to put the focus elsewhere into other positive things we could do in our lives that do us more good. This is a far more constructive approach to life I would say. :)
  
  Yet sometimes life does act in very funny ways, and not always in the ways you'd expect them to appear. Funnily enough, I had a very strange day yesterday. The first was......I learnt a friend of mine had his camera stolen....from his safe! He was a friend of mine in a studio next door on my floor, and his assistant found his $50,000 Canon 1DS Mark III had gone AWOL. The police went to his premises earlier to try to establish what had happened. What was worse was there was no sign of a break-in, especially on the safe....so for insurance purposes it was hard for the cops to determine if such a thing had happened.
  
  Then came a meeting I had last night with an old friend, someone who I'd known for many years and is considered a valuable partner in my business (supply-wise). I just discovered tonight that sometime later in the year, he will be leaving the company. He had been there for 8 years and steered the company into profitability......which is the same amount of time that I'd known him as a friend. But he was unhappy not because of the people, (he loved everything about the company) but because of upper management and the constraints they had given him. When that happens, anybody would leave, especially if one is the CEO (which he was).
  
  Life is filled with lots of ups and downs. Its not always up, yet its not always down, and what I discovered was, you just have to learn to adapt whenever you can. There's no sure guarantee you'll ever succeed, but you just have to put your best step forward and keep trying. To try it out, is the only way to succeed. To test out who you really are, to flesh out your life and ideas. The problem is, most people don't even try! They are pigeonholed and too scared to venture out of that pigeonhole (that circle/ring society has defined them). And so they are stuck in the jobs or life they hate. Simply because they take what's available, what other people think they should do (instead of what their heart thinks they should do) and never given a second thought about other options. Until they change their thoughts about themselves, will then things work their way.
  
  That's what happened to me about 3 years ago when I moved to HK with my family. At the time I was already running the family business for 7 years. The concensus then was 'Oh Jason runs the office in London. Expect him to be like his parents, the one to remain there faithfully the rest of his days'. But I moved, and it shocked everyone in my family. You didn't realise, but I was the one who decided to eventually move! I got fed up with the routine and I wanted something different, to live elsewhere. I'd never really lived in Asia before and I thought it would be a real departure. My family agreed, and that is why we moved.
  
  Now of course I'm more happy than ever! Because it is the very life that I want, in the very place I want to be (at this moment of time).
  
  I think, this is probably why you've been given this test, because you're not afraid. Yes you may have lost your boyfriend, but you haven't lost yourself, and someone up there is really trying you....trying out your will, and your faith. You say that you're strong as a person? Prove it, (is what they are saying).
  
  Personally I think your boyfriend leaving you could be a blessing in disguise! (believe it or not). Because his family was already against you before, it wouldn't have made you any happier if you both were married (even though you loved him). Since family is also about getting on with the different generations, you may have been spared such a fate. So don't look upon the breakup as being bad, but something that is actually to your benefit! :)
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   Ee Hoon Khoo

  Friday, Nov 20, 2009 12:04PM [Report]

  Hi Michelle, thanks for adding as a fan. I've been in theatre for close to 16 years. At this point in time, its more technical and design for smaller productions. However for production management its mega, I have more strenght in technical direction so Production Management is a cool job for me.
  
  Jason has made some really good suggestion for you.
  
  It is not easy at all to handle all the distress inside you right now. Sometimes it gets to the point of being selfish and loving ourselves a little more so that we keep our own happiness and wellbeing in perspective rather than allowing others to screw up our lives.
  
  You must believe what you believe in. Don't lost that sense of worth and pride in yourself and your capacity in life, don't let your negative thoughts overrides the positives ones. I'm speaking as a person who has that side of the experience and is still challenging myself daily.
  
  Keep your head up high. Take good care.
  
  Sunday will be a rainy day and a bad day, haha! Put a curse on him...just joking.
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  JasonChau

  Friday, Nov 20, 2009 3:15AM [Report]

  You know what Michelle? I know why you're playful today, cos I just realised......you just gotta laugh at it! You've gotta laugh at whatever life throws at you. I discovered, life really is a game, and only in a happy and joyful state of mind can things truly work out your way, and that we really find ourselves or be ourselves....because that is our natural state of being.
  
  You think adults are more mature? On the contrary I've found kids to sometimes be far more mature than adults!!! Life is actually very simple. It is only the complexity of so-called 'adult' thinking about possession and loss that has muddied our relations to each other, and the way our society works. ^^
  
  By all means, be happy this weekend! Don't feel resentful at all, but happy for your ex that has found what he is looking for. Just like you will in time.......because only when you feel happy and non-resentful, will the very things you want in your life appear.
  
  You know, about a year and a half ago I helped a fellow AnDer called Ting with her problems. At the time she said she was lonely and seeing all her other friends go off with their boyfriends during the summer, she felt lonely. So I wrote her a reply and quoting from a book I'd read called 'Cosmic Ordering System' I quoted to her the technique of 'mentally' ordering the person she was looking for. So she would note what he looks like, how high he is, what his personality is like etc.. It involved her writing a letter down about her wishes, and reading it out loud near her window at night. I didn't check her account for about 6 months, and when I did, I got a shock of my life.
  
  She wrote a blog back to me, and said the reason why she hadn't been on the site for 6 months was because she had found the very person she had dreamt of! She wrote down how she came to meet him, this guy who was EXACTLY like she had thought of in the letter, and wrote the blog to say thanks to me! I'd never done anything like that previously, and what her testimony said to me was, we do create our future by what we think or imagine, literally! So if we think negative and become resentful about our experiences....we create that very (unhappy) future. So the idea is to let go and break out of it so we don't fall into that trap. Obviously its a hard skill to aqcuire and master, but when you do you'll find you will soar! Like I said, things WILL eventually work out your way, but its all dependent on whether you believe it.
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  pongza

  Thursday, Nov 19, 2009 2:31PM [Report]

  Glad you're able to jump back up. =) *hugs*
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  JasonChau

  Tuesday, Nov 17, 2009 6:51PM [Report]

  No you're not stupid.........you're just a considerate and caring person and just did what you had to do, what you thought was best for the both of you (at the time). You had your choices and you took them, but it didn't work out in the end that 's all...These things happen in life, so no need to blame yourself.
  
  Saying that, the problem came up because the guy didn't have the guts to face you and tell you the truth up front. Even if he suddenly found someone else and totally 'forgot' your time together, at least own up to it beforehand! To be messing around whilst still in a relationship, is simply stupid (and dangerous). That's what I really hate about some people, they absolutely have no conscience.....
  
  Anyways stay happy and safe ok? (Actually I'm glad you've got rid of him! ^^)
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   Snakebite

  Wednesday, Nov 11, 2009 4:51AM [Report]

  thanks for the birthday wishes. I've not been on AnD for a bit. so sorry I was slow responding.
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   Frederic Ambroisine

  Sunday, Oct 18, 2009 8:40PM [Report]

  Thanks for the birthday whishes Michelle! Cheers.
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   Philip Sahagun

  Friday, Sep 18, 2009 10:11PM [Report]

  Hi hi from Philip =D
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  sems59

  Wednesday, Aug 5, 2009 2:53AM [Report]

  selam
  ni hao
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  egypt

  Sunday, Jul 5, 2009 2:18AM [Report]

  hallo . long time no c or here from u, haw r u? haw is life with u? i hope u r fine girl.
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  haichunzhen

  Thursday, Jun 18, 2009 12:20AM [Report]

  你好，你07年在我另一个博客流言，但我那个没有用了，只用这个，今天突然间看到我以前的那个博客，现在才来回访，祝你开心。
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   Shairah

  Monday, Jun 15, 2009 11:22AM [Report]

  You're most welcome! I Love Serena C. I've been interviewed by her several times before. She is great!! I would love to meet Mike also. Is he on AnD? ~Shairah~
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   Denise Keller

  Sunday, Jun 14, 2009 9:51PM [Report]

  Yeah, its called the revenge of tuak. aka the RUNS.
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  60SKY

  Saturday, May 30, 2009 4:54AM [Report]

  HELLO KITTY  ：）
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  nikong

  Friday, May 22, 2009 4:01PM [Report]

  Hi~nice to meet you

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