Sometimes, by cautiously reading dogs’ or some animals mind and seeing what they saw, it might be able to handle all kinds, no matter how aggressive they are.



What does this mean to me? The concept is simple: a single position, and angle, can never offer us the whole picture of an issue; if you can’t see what the dog saw, you never understand why it bites you. So stay away from your usual position, leave your comfort zone, and grasp your opportunities to jump into a better future.

Got it?

I think it is very important to be true to oneself. Insincerity brings fake face and it will not help to develop the true friendship. There is a saying, “family could not be chosen, but friends can be.” This saying is so true. We have the absolute choice to whom we would like to be friends with and we would like to stay close with.


Fake, self centered and egocentric people will never be able to experience the taste of true friendship because of their selfishness. When we start to make friends, we tend to choose the people with same personalities. Same personalities bring the common topics to talk and activities to do together. Even though we have different of opinions, we try to look from different angels of those opinions and could stay in peace in spite of having disagreements.


Once we get to know friends, we learn more about friends. By doing so, it could also bring disappointment because the friends we think sincere turn out to be fake and egocentric. We learn something truth facts about their personalities which are contrary to the beginning. In this case, we have to make a decision whether we should stay close like before. If the particular friend is egocentric, it is better to keep some distant so that we could save ourselves from draining in those fruitless friendship.


But on the other hand, if we ever come across with true friends, we should not let go of the opportunity. We should cherish the every moment we spend together with them. Only fair weather friend would stay next to others whom they think would be advantageous for them. In times of difficulties, they could not be found anywhere, whereas true friends will stay and share the sorrow and difficulties of their friends. True friend accept his or her friend for who they are and who they are not regardless of their status. True friend has a best interest for others and would not sway away in need.

Life would be meaningless without true friend. Life is a long journey and not easy one to go through by oneself. There will be always the time we need to share our sorrow, joy and happiness. Therefore, it is a blessing and a gift from God to possess a handful of true friends in one’s life.

“Is this what you want to be? So what do you want to be?” This is the pair of questions I ask from time to time. For me, the element named ‘Passion’ is the key to success. Passion can be seen as a desire to achieve your goals. "Without having a goal, it's difficult to score." This quote from Paul Arden’s book ‘It's Not How Good You Are, Its How Good You Want to Be’ perfectly illustrates this point: No goal, no passion, no success. So here’s the fundamental question: What are you looking for?

Have you ever strolled along our cityscape? Once in a while, I like to walk freely in the city in my leisure time without any companion, purpose, or even, without destination.


Walter Benjamin, a German philosopher, called travellers like this as ‘flâneur’. a French word with basic meanings of a stroller. Charles Baudelaire, a French poet in 19th century, is undoubtedly a major representative of flâneur. He transformed his steps and sights into prose in his book “Le Spleen de Paris” to record the process of urbanisation in Paris at that time.

Always bored by routine life? Why not stroll along and observe the city as a flâneur? Eventually, you will be able to discover the beauty of the city.

總有一些人，他們看上去整天都很開心，沒有煩惱，像個小孩，好多人都會羨慕他們，但其實不是這樣的。他們不想讓別人看到自己難過的一面，更沒有能力一個人獨處，因為當夜深人靜的時候，他不知道一個人會發生什麽事，坐在窗前冥想走過的點滴。­


他們貌似很堅強，因為在別人看來，他們什麽事都能微笑著去面對，但事實上他們長著世界上最脆弱的心靈，只是長期的偽裝使得別人很難發現他們內心深處的創傷。­


他們只想簡簡單單、快快樂樂的活著，期待並且相信每個人給的笑容都是真心的，希望身邊的人都是真正的喜歡自己。即使別人小小的意見，也會另他們難過好久，他們真的很介意，介意自己不被人喜歡。因為，他們總是為別人想的很多，對別人總是比對自己好；把能對喜歡的人好當做幸福，喜歡別人比喜歡自己多。­

他們總是那樣，前一秒還傷心的流著淚，後一秒出現在朋友面前的時候，已經滿臉溢著燦爛的笑容。有人說她們是向日葵，是的，他們在意的人就像是太陽，在面對太陽的時候永遠是明艷的花瓣，而太陽照不到的背面，那悲傷藏得那麽好，不願被看見。­

他們向往自由的生活，卻必須為了誰很努力的朝另外的一個方向活著，很累很累，卻仍是心甘情願。不得不面對從未想過的爭奪和復雜，恐慌、不知所措。只有面對最信賴的人時，才會卸下盔甲，委屈的流下眼淚。因為在他們心裏，笑就是開心，哭就是難過，接近就是喜歡，遠離就是討厭。但其實不是，他們明白了，心好傷，眼淚就沒忍住。哭過之後，笑笑得擦幹眼淚，說，沒關系，我可以做的很好的。­

他們好像無所不能，好像總是不會有煩惱，好像什麽問題都能輕而易舉的解決，總是喜歡喜歡出現在流淚的人面前，笑嘻嘻的逗著笑。而面對自己的問題，他們卻茫然無措，面對自己的悲傷，他們只會躲在人們看不見的角落裏慢慢由傷口越裂越大。­


他們的想法非常簡單，說出來的就是心裏所想的，肚子裏不會拐七道八道的小彎，無心的話可能會引起別人的誤解。所以，請別記恨她們，他們從不願傷害誰，小小的錯誤就能讓他們懊悔很久。­他們其實非常單純，甚至你曾經給了他一個微笑她也會一輩子記得你的好，因此他們的世界觀其實也很簡單，他們很容易受蠱惑，請不要輕易的傷害他們的感情，因為一旦傷害了，那就將永遠彌補不回來！如果你身邊有這種人請你給予他（她）那怕是鳳毛麟角的那點關懷，讓他（她）知道這個世界沒有拋棄他們......