I want to share something wonderful with you. Something that every little girl dreams
of when innocence is still innocent and when beautiful remains beautiful.
Mr. Right: The Man that makes the purpose of "Falling Inlove". He makes
staring unstable, lip unspeakable, and heartbeats unstoppable. All at once,
"Sigh~~~........." (Ahem) hehehThe tall dark and handsome prince who will catch you at the perfect time of a
fall. His nearness makes everything warm filling your world with fire from his
smile, his sense of smell tickles your heart leaving you joyfully content, and
the way his voice whispers your name as it guides you through a wondrous maze
of serenity and love. The one man who you desire most in every dream. Your soul
searches, your flesh cries, and everything changes.
Reality is, he
is just a fiction of our imagination. Someone who we created through society because
Ken was perfect for Barbie, the innocence of love begin wrong.
look onto Barbie as the perfect appearance for a Ken to fall inlove. The pretty
clothes, the flawless skin, and the substantial inheritance she was born with. Beauty
became nothing but plastic. Beauty manifested into something else.
a thing of beauty is not of an appearance or what she has but the grace God
placed upon her heart. So many painful mistakes of trying to change for Mr.
Right or though you thought. BUT not even literally a handsome Prince, a
sensational Pop Artist, or any successful Celebrity could change my will to be
myself. I tell the lonely lover inside me that God is just preparing my beloved for
me. I have to first get my relationship right with Christ then when i do, God knows my taste how could he give me less?
the tears and battles within me to be like a Barbie just for others to see me, it wasnt worth losing the real me. There are many sisters out there who are bless with beauty, wealth, and fame
but as God said,
beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to
be praised.” –Proverbs 30:31
And in every
Man, they too desire more than just an appearance. No matter how much a man can
look at a beautiful woman, she must require a heart of gold.
See, I use
to search for Mr. Right or lust after these handsome guys who are just like
Ken. Setting myself for failure I still didn’t care, because they were so cute.
I let my guard down, I let the one who wasn’t the one come steal my innocence. Willing
and freely I gave my heart up. Change myself to better it for him so he can see
how pretty I look. ALL because he was desirable.
The thing is
it was never worth the trouble of searching and hoping so hard for that Desirable Guy
who you think is the right guy but totally the wrong guy to come and disappoint you in the end.
What a mess
we are sometimes, but the greatest part of this Love story within me is that
God was by my side the whole time. Yes he taught me well but he loved me more
to not ever lead me into the wrong hands again. My heart can never be broken because
God is at the gate in charge of who can enter, the search for Mr. Right has
ended because I don’t need to find him he will find me, and my hope for a great
man of God is in the hands of my King.
I don’t need
a Ken to make me his Barbie, I don’t need her wealth to make me beautiful, and I
surly don’t ever want to forget who I am and why I am here.
Sisters who are reading, remember that love isn’t about how the world puts it
on the screen, but how God can and will bring “Mr. Right with God” into your
life. And to my Brothers, know that this place is full of deceit, be like Joseph
(Genesis 39)and fight the temptations in order to fully be bless abundantly
by GodIts like Baking, trust the Baker to prepare the best, he knows all the right ingredient for it to come out just right!All that "Falling Inlove" will come, you just have to get to know God even better for him to know your taste
time, Right is Right, Wrong is Wrong, Don’t go walking where you don’t Belong!!!
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