当翻开课本的时候才发现~

"天啊！原来这本书说的不只是中国！还是国际的！"

天啊~ 一想到考试，我就心寒了！！

还那么勤力的一次过拿了幼儿心理学 和 商业法律来读~  看我这次怎么死！

今天盆踊り～穿浴服真的不容易~  一个人穿~ 好辛苦哦~！！

还好今天死党亮介くんと綾乃ちゃん～也一起去~！

お祭りは大好き～！！

一直以来， 对 ‘第三者’这字眼没什么太大的感觉， 但是对于第三者没什么好的印象

近来， 身边三个很要好得朋友都关系在第三者的关系里，~ 老实说~在感情世界里， 我真的很讨厌很恨介入三角关系的第三者。 但是偏偏，遇到身边朋友，遇到这些事情发生在自己身上的时候真的讨厌不了

T女 出生于小康之家， 长相清秀，可说是人见人爱的女生， 当她介入三角关系的时候， 他对我说，他自己其实也很痛苦！  我们之间好朋友的关系， 慢慢变化成互相逃避对方的朋友了。  原因是因为，我实在非常不赞成他的做法！ 她并不爱那个男生，只是想把他当作陪伴身边的情人，享受被爱的感觉！那男生也不爱他，只不过目前的正牌女朋友远地工作，两人谈着远距离的恋爱 所以才找 T 女解闷~  最令我生气的是  那男生还认真的和我朋友说他们正在玩着很危险的游戏  我不明白他们是什么心态， 怎么可以这样狠心的伤害那男生的女朋友~ 如果他看见这贴， 他一定怪我~ 但是真的想告诉他， 骂你真的对你好，与其对你残忍，也不想看见以后你受伤害的样子  看见另外不认识的女人无辜的被你的无意伤害你很高兴吗？ 如果你一点也不觉得惭愧，罪恶感， 我想不到什么理由继续和你那颗冷血的心交往

K 子 比我大9年的前辈，从认识他那一天，我就知道他是第三者， 但是还是很想和他做朋友， 这段感情里，他受的苦 我可以说是比情敌多，向断却断不了~   从前，开始和这男生交往的时候不知道他已经有了女朋友，当知道的时候才发现原来两人是交往10年的情侣； 近来，那个男生要结婚了， 他在家关闭了很久~ 知道看见他的时候我才发现他憔悴了，瘦了~ 这段感情，他一点也不快乐~ 除了上班要隐瞒，见不得光， 我想不到什么理由可以让他继续和这个男人一起~  幸好~ 他现在慢慢开始解脱~  那天看见他在我面前哭的时候，对我说了，就算交往了7年的男朋友 也不可以轻易把心交给他，因为他可能随时背叛你~

其实一直以来我也知道这个道理，所以有时候我在想， 为何自己不去寻找一个自己真正信任的人？ 但是几个小时后， 我就打消这种想法~ 就当作愚蠢的自己默默的承受不愿意见到的， 不愿意听到的， 继续守在他身边吧！

烦恼了几天，终于一口气写出来，我的心，也像解开了另外一个结！

第三者 不容易， 要承受眼光，承受压力，承受责骂  最后得到， 却不是自己爱的那个男人， 当然，也有开花的~ 但是，寒冷的冬天，能过盛开花朵的树， 有几棵？

I will go Japan again~ for work!!!!

My company branch is in Osaka! So normally coworkers in Japan will helps to arrange accomodation in Osaka town!  This time i decided to stay in Nara, because i really love Nara so much!

As Yo-chan stayed in Nara too, i decided to book any hotel where near his work place! Been to Nara many times, and in love with this place because it's so beautiful and peace!  Peoples in Nara much more friendly than in Tokyo. Helpful even you don't understand / speak in Japanese.  Especially 月下美人～ I love the foods in this restaurant! Don't you think the name of the restaurant nice too?!

Hope i got more times to Kobe this time! As some of my friend entered University in Kobe!!!!  ^-^

お好み焼き、ただいま！！！！ I miss you so much, Okonomiyaki~(name of the food)

As the 7years anniversary coming soon, me and my boyfriend decided to go for our honeymoon end of this year. Friends around me felt envy that i got such handsome (he's handsome k!) and nice boyfriend, but no one know actually it's hard for me and for him to build this relationship.

Language!    We using different type of language!  He's using Japanese ( + Kansai 1  )  and I'm using Mandarin and English!  Although he studied in oversea for few years before, still his english is not exactly perfect! So i forced to learn his language! (Honestly, learned because of him!)

Citizen Since he's Japanese, and I'm Malaysian... I always faced to the problem that to apply visa before i visit to Japan! Of course, he will come and stay over Malaysia every 3months.  although i know he is comfortable to live in malaysia (he stay in msia since 9yrs old), but i belive home sweet home.. he prefer japan than here!

Attraction  This the main things im worry-ing since we in love!  he seems like many bees will fly around him... even an indonesian clean lady in love him while doing cleaning in his office!!!! God!!!! can u imaging how angry am i and why i want to take away all his money, and check his clothes everyday after he back from work?  and glad that he finallly understand why am i worry-ing so much and ...since i graduated from high school, he told me that he worry-ing i might kidnap by somebody!       （报应！）

Family  His mom prefer he marry japanese gal rather than a chinese gal!  but finally she's now ok with me, since i had visited her on february and showed her that i learn to cook japanese recipe, language, culture because of her son!   his dad is ok! Open-minded business man! and i love his grandpa (passed away few yrs ago) because of him kindness, because of he really treat me like his family, his grand-daughter!  Yoshiaki's brother! consider as my best friend and buddies! we went for travel, went for backpacking and study-ing, learning, laughing, together!!!! Sometimes Yoshiaki jealous that i have his brother as my buddy!! (we r in a same group while study in college) 

Lucky..................... he's still with me..... although we maybe face to many problem everyday, now and future... as long as his heart is with me! i will be with him forever! Glad that i found u! in 14July,2000！

據說現在很流行曖昧,在這個紛繁的都市，朋友的事例太多:

你們認識很久,
他天天朝九晚五噓寒問暖的電話比你的鍾表還要准時,
你滿心歡喜你開始心懷期待,就連做夢都會笑出來,
可是他就是什麼也不說,你對自己說等等再等等,
直到有一天你看到他身邊有了另一個身影,
你震驚"不是...這是....我是.....?"

在朋友眼裡你們很登對,每次聚會他做你的護花使者責無旁貸,
你也發現自己對他有了些些的依賴,
他總是不經意的拍拍你的肩很寵愛的揉揉你的發,
朋友關於你們之間無傷大雅的玩笑讓你覺得很甜蜜你說你感覺幸福就在不遠的地方.
就在你以為一切都將水到渠成的時候睛天霹靂,
他說他從沒對你有過
這種想法,他說這是你的誤會.你呆住了"誤會?那麼多人前的親暱.....竟...竟然是...誤會.....?"

傷心嗎?難過嗎?痛苦嗎?只是,只是誰讓你把曖昧當愛情呢？
這是個曖昧橫行的年代,
感情出現的第三個種類,
比友情深比愛情淺游走於二者的邊緣這就是曖昧,
是什麼時候開始本應是明明朗朗的愛情成了一場麓戰,
誰先動心誰就滿盤皆輸萬劫不復.是誰把簡單復雜化？
其實說穿了

曖昧,是可以推脫責任的游戲,沒有承諾就無需負責;
曖昧,是勇敢者的游戲,無畏的人才能在角逐中進退自如;
如果你沒有鐵石鑄就的心腸做軟胃甲,那麼你就別拿曖昧當愛情！