What is love?

      Love is a profound feeling of tender affection for or intense attraction to another. People in love are often considered to have "good" interpersonal chemistry. Love is described as a deep, ineffable feeling shared in passionate or intimate interpersonal relationships. In different contexts, however, the word love has a variety of related but distinct meanings: in addition to romantic love, which is characterized by a mix of emotional and sexual desire, other forms include platonic love, religious love, familial love, and the more casual application of the term to anyone or anything that one considers strongly pleasurable, enjoyable, or desirable, including activities and foods. This diverse range of meanings in a single word is commonly contrasted with the plurality of Greek words for Love, reflecting the word's versatility and complexity.

     Although clearly and consistently defining love is a difficult task, and often a subject of much debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't "love." As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and more "pure" form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is commonly contrasted with friendship, though other definitions of the word love may be applied to close friendships in certain contexts.

     The concept of love, however, is subject to debate. Some deny the existence of love. Others call it a recently-invented abstraction, sometimes dating the "invention" to courtly Europe during or after the middle ages—though this is contradicted by the sizable body of ancient love poetry. Others maintain that love really exists, and is not an abstraction, but is indefinable, being a quantity which is spiritual or metaphysical in nature. Some psychologists maintain that love is the action of lending one's "boundary" or "self-esteem" to another. Others attempt to define love by applying the definition to everyday life.

     Though love is considered a positive and desirable aspect of existence, love can cause a great deal of emotional harm. Consider Romeo and Juliet, Othello, Great Expectations, and other classical and popular works that enumerate how love can lead to tragedy and emotional pain. In human interactions, love becomes a peril when love is not bilateral, known as Unrequited love. A further peril for individuals that love, or can love others, is that love is not enduring and that many people have psychological defense mechanisms inhibit their ability to accept or reciprocate love.

recently,we keep being bathed in warm sunshine in a very nice mood.

several intimate fellows called me to hang out around the riverside,3 boys and 2 gals.

maybe you konw Xiang river in Changsha,at this time,spring is to sprung,local people would like to fly  kites here ,especially,the collegers from nearby as well as us.

a gal took a camera and took a lot pics

we rambled on and on along the peaceful river,sometimes we would burst into laughter for a humorous  joke.lol

we chated a  lot  and  i had a thought that spring was to sprung ......................

Tech Support:"I need you to right-click on the Open Desktop."

Customer:"OK."

Tech Support:"Did you get a pop-up munu?" Customer:"No."

Tech Support:"Ok.Right click again.Do you see a pop-up menu?"

Customer:"No."

Tech Support:"Ok.Sir,Can you tell me what you have done up until this point?"

Customer:"Sure,you told me to write 'click' and I wrote 'click'."  

Ooooh,there will be a sleepless night,but sooo sweet.
my girl is in the  train now leaving for Changsha(i am in this city) from Guangzhou.
we are aparted more than one month.
the lastest kiss to bye is somewhat unclear remained in memory.
we both know it is the  time to do something to heat up our love.
and we will be together at the end of  the 8 hours trip by train.
my baby,i love you.only this three words is not enough.
best wishes to us,please.


PS:something makes me crazy,
       i have 2 important exams in 2 days.
       help.....