Digging In

It's time for this pisces to dig in and make things happen.  My trip to HK, Tai Pei, and KL has been pushed back, but, if I dig in and barring any unforeseen crap I tend to step in, I can hopefully be there for Limberlake's birthday next year.  EVENTHOUGH part of me wants to change my trip back to the original Japan.  One friend from college has moved to Hawai'i but I can still visit her family and the other told me I could stay in his extra room.  I do want to stay at an onsen and in a Ryokan, but I don't mind saving money either.  The only problem is my friend, let's call him Tetsuya (cuz that's his name, lol), used to have a crush on me.  His current girlfriend is, shall we say, touched in the head.  Somehow I have a yellow sign flashing in the traffic signal of my mind.  The last thing I need is to be in some un-threesome in another country.  It would be one thing to be arrested for say finding Ikki Sawamura *le sigh I lovey he* and sticking my tongue in his dimples without permission.  I'd be partially alright with that.  It would be quite another to be arrested for whopping a witches ass in her man's apartment.  Don't 'cha think?  Now that I've typed that HK, TP, KL trip sounds a lot safer.  It still has the 'family must keep bail money on hand' side, but not the 'she's gonna wind up in stupid drama and lose her temper' aspect. 

Tetsuya still has some strange relationship with his ex-wife.  They're marriage could go into the hall of strange.  I'm 99% sure she's a lesbian though so I'm not worried about her.  I dunno what it is with my friends dating/marrying closeted gay people.  I think they all scared me into singeldom.  My friends all moved home and just screwed up the picking of the spouses/ significant others.  Did I ever tell you my best friend kept dating gay guys?  Yup, 'tis true.  I personally outted 4 of them to her.   The nelliest of which refused to admit it so we had to plan an unveiling of truth to her.  Actually another friend who is gay did it by bringing her to a "hook up" party pretending like he didn't know what it was so she could see her man in the corner with someone else's man.   I was proud of her though.  She didn't freak.  She stayed ever the lady, pretended like she did not see him, stayed in the room until he became uncomfortable before she left and went home.  Me? I would have lost my ever loving mind.  Next day's headlines: American Bangs Boi's Head Into Wall.  My gaydar is well honed, but I could have an off moment.  When she got married I travelled to her country at my own non-group rated expense to make sure she was not engaged to another homosexual.  Thank God she wasn't.   Funny thing, she's the only one of our group that is still married.  Seriously, everyone who got married is now divorced.    Wait, how'd I get on this subject?  *hangs head*  My train is easily derailed.

Soooooooooo........Yeah....

I'm going to have to put myself on a strict budget.  hee That made me giggle.  I'm need to find discipline.  I used to have it.  No clue where it went.  No hanging out on Amazon checking the deals.  No buying cuz I may need that one day.  Man, this is gonna be a blue Christmas, but a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do.  Next year I don't want to be wishing that I had a set intinerary.  I want to have one.  I don't want to be reading about what my Stooges were up to.  I want to have been there.   I don't want to be wishing that I had a plan to track down D'Artagne and steal his jewelry.  (My kidnap Vic Zhou and tie him to the bed plan has changed to mug.. er.. hug Van and steal indefinitely borrow his accessories plan.  The lock Takeshi Kaneshiro up in my closet plan is still a go.)  I probably should delete that.  Don't tell.  K?  ssshhhh

edit 11/3:  THERE WILL BE NO SHARING OF THE KANESHIRO!