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  • If I Had My Life To Live Over

    Saturday, Aug 29, 2009 10:47AM / Standard Entry / Members only
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    Apparently it is women's history month & why I put up a  cake photo with cats in it I have no idea.

    I came across an email that made me think about that pink rose candle at home. This is a verse wrote by Erma Bombeck who lost her fight with cancer. 


    IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER
    - by Erma Bombeck

     (written after she found out she was dying from cancer).

    I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day. 

    I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage. 

    I would have talked less and listened more. 

    I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.

    I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.
      
    I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.

      
    I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.
      
    I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.
      
    I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains.

    I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.
      
    I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime. 

    Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.

    When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, 'Later. Now go get washed up for dinner.' There would have been more 'I love you's' More 'I'm sorry's.'

    But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute...look at it and really see it.. live it and never give it back.  STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF!!!

    Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who has more, or who's doing what. Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us.

    Let's think about what God HAS blessed us with, and what we are doing each day to promote ourselves mentally, physically, and emotionally. I hope you
    have a blessed day .

    Friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.

    By Erma Bombeck

Entry comments (6)

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  • connierabbit
    posted on Saturday, Sep 12, 2009 10:34PM [Report]
    hi hi..so cute........n so funny....;)
  • vivilai
    posted on Sunday, Aug 30, 2009 1:06AM [Report]
    hehe,,,it's very funny & interesting !!
    Lydia: enjoy them !! haha,,,,
  • vanness08
    posted on Saturday, Aug 29, 2009 7:39PM [Report]
    This is why we shouldn't take life for granted. You  never know when you will be leaving it =(
    lets make each day as our last day and make the best out of it.

    Thanks for sharing Lyd =)
  • vanness08
    posted on Saturday, Aug 29, 2009 7:35PM [Report]
    lmao!!!
  • vanness08
    posted on Saturday, Aug 29, 2009 7:35PM [Report]
    looollll!!!
  • aznguy101
    posted on Saturday, Aug 29, 2009 5:41PM [Report]
    that is soo cute and funny how you have all of this cute stuff soo funny i like it.

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