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  • low mood

    Thursday, Nov 1, 2007 4:27PM / Standard Entry / Members only
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     Haven't written anything in my blog for a long time.

    now i am stuffed  with many things,the most upset thing is i  am  on the  edge  of breaking up with  my  girlfriend,i  am so  miserable about  that,because  she is  my  first  lover,sometimes  i  doubt  whether i am  a  good  guy  or not.to  be honest,i really  don't know what the girls think in their mind,i  find  it  difficult  dealing with  the  girls.

      My girlfriend said  that i  didn't take good care of her,every  time i told her where  i didn't do well,but she did't tell me,so i  thought  a lot about that,and because  of it,i  was hurt  a lot by  that.

     one day  she told  me  she was  tired  staying with me,i asked  the reason,she  said  that she wanted  more freedom,she liked the feelings  of being  alone,ok  i gave her much time to think over our relationship, aucaully my  heart   was bleeding at that time.

     now  i am getting out of that situation,i  want  to forget it  entirely,i think i have made  my mind,i should focus  on my study,i know it well take a  toll on my study and my life,because i am not  a good  person who can control myself very well,i am  easily addicted  to  something,why  do  i think so,because  i  have experienced that,i am afraid of experiencing it  again,even i think it is a not a brave deed,but i have no other choice,because that is me,at this  point ,i feel ashamed of myself.

      i  hope  i really can recover from the problems i was involved in,i should face the life bravely,i say  to myself,my  task  now is  to study.

Entry comments (8)

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  • ZIQIAO
    posted on Thursday, May 7, 2009 2:20AM [Report]
    You can do it well!my friend.Keep fighting!ziqiao...
  • JustKelly
    posted on Wednesday, May 28, 2008 12:26AM [Report]
    Hugsz to you!!  Bless your heart.  It will get better!  :)
  • Kuhitsu
    posted on Friday, Nov 9, 2007 1:20PM [Report]
    "i really  don't know what the girls think in their mind" = I think, even girl's dont know whats happening in their brains ;) but still they seem's to think that we man, know what's happening in there.
  • Kuhitsu
    posted on Saturday, Nov 3, 2007 5:24AM [Report]
    keep the flag's high and don't do old sock's! School is pretty cool thing to do!
  • dragontattoo
    posted on Saturday, Nov 3, 2007 12:17AM [Report]
    if your girlfriend could not tell you where you was going wrong, then I don't think the problem lies with you, she just wanted to break up and decided that blaming you was the easy way. It is unfair when people use us as an excuse to get out.. You sound like a loving person, you will find someone better, and never think that the break up was your fault.

    Definitely concentrate on your studies, I know it is hard, but you'll find that you'll meet someone when you least expect it.

    Jaine is right and you may not want to hear it but time is the greatest healer and you are so young.

    You're a lovely guy, take your time.
  • Jaine
    posted on Friday, Nov 2, 2007 4:26AM [Report]
    I'm sorry that you are feeling so bad about yourself.  I think that you are a good person.  Sometimes relationships just arn't meant to be, but that doesn't stop them from hurting.

    I'm sure you tried to look after your girlfriend, sometimes people need lots and lots of reassurance that their boyfriend/girlfriend cares.   I ended it with my last boyfriend because, in the end, I couldn't give him enough reassurance, he was always unhappy.  I couldn't make him happy and he was making me unhappy too.  

    I think focusing on your studies is a really really good idea. It is normal for these things to take a toll on our work/study, it does not make you a weak or addictive person, it makes you human with a heart.  You have nothing to be ashamed of.

    I know its cliched but time really does make it easier to deal with and you will meet somebody more suited to you.  You are so young, no need to be in a hurry about it.

    *hugs*
  • silky
    posted on Friday, Nov 2, 2007 3:36AM [Report]
    Sorry to hear that *big hug* I can't imagine you're a bad guy. It may take some time, but you'll get over it and you'll find another girlfriend one time. Focusing on the studies will help you to get over it.
  • carmellarose
    posted on Friday, Nov 2, 2007 2:50AM [Report]
    Hey *big hugs* I'm sorry you're going through what you are...You'll pull through!!! Concentrate on your studies!!!!

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