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  • 己所不慾,勿施於人;好馬不吃回頭草

    Monday, Nov 23, 2009 1:43AM / Standard Entry / drama / movie

    這兩句話的意思,我想大家都了解吧
    己所不慾,勿施於人   指的是,自己不要的東西,就不要勉強別人要...
    好馬不吃回頭草   可以指,自己不要的東西,不要以後又跑回頭要...
    人難免都會有自私的時候
    因爲連自己都照顧不到,那怎麽去照顧別人
    可是,自私是有個限度的...
    把自己的快樂建立在別人的痛苦上,那是非常不要得的
    石安娜啊、石安娜...
    當妳在追逐夢想的時候,就把存希丟到一旁
    當妳的夢想破碎了,就喪家犬般躲囘存希身邊...
    人是有感覺的啊...
    就算他多麽愛妳,忍耐也是有一定限度的
    12次的放鴿子嘢,他都沒怨妳
    真的只有偶像劇才有這麽好的男人吧!
    可是我知道,不是只有偶像劇有這麽樣的女人。
    我真的羡慕這種女人,因爲她們對自己很有信心。
    她們相信她們所要的,還是會乖乖等待她們。
    結果,真的是有乖乖的等她們,那才讓人覺得不公平。
    這是我們這種所謂的 “陳欣怡” 無法祈求的吧...
    可是我還是堅持我的想法:
    人的心猶如易碎玻璃
    被施壓就會有裂痕
    再施壓就會破裂
    破裂了再補回去的玻璃
    還是會有痕跡
    而且很容易又會再破裂
    所以,還是小心對待為佳。
    酸葡萄心態嗎?隨便啦...
    我有我生活...

  • 便利貼女孩...

    Saturday, Nov 21, 2009 2:00AM / Standard Entry / drama / movie

    陳欣怡啊陳欣怡...
    妳那個被人捧上天又瞬間甩下地的感覺
    我真的明白
    真的...
    不管日新月異,那感受還是歷歷在目
    能怪誰?
    怪相見恨晚嗎?
    還是怪自己用心太深?
    可是我感到安慰的是
    妳還是有個完美的結局
    雖然那中間還蠻坎坷的
    不管編劇是對妳這個角色貼心還是給觀衆一個開心的句點
    至少對大家都是個快樂的收場
    我也好想期待最美好的奇跡出現
    等到期待消失
    等到記憶模糊
    等到一切歸零
    重新出發




  • 美祿與梳打餅 之前傳

    Friday, Nov 20, 2009 2:30AM / Standard Entry / 2016

    兩年前,寫了當時兩年閒發生的事...

    February 14, 2007

    美禄与梳打饼

    Filed under: Weblogs — bleupluie @ 8:51 am and

    喜欢看你傻傻的笑
    喜欢看你腼腆地躲掉
    喜欢看你开心时眼睛眯眯的
    喜欢看你静静的时候认真的模样
    喜欢看你睡着了还是那么帅
    喜欢看着你
    喜欢你呆在我身边
    喜欢你对我撒娇
    喜欢你摸摸我的头拍拍我的脸
    喜欢你在我难过时逗我开心
    喜欢你总是对我说着好听的话
    喜欢你乖乖的总是对我有求必应
    喜欢牵着你的手
    喜欢把你的肩膀当枕头
    喜欢听你开心时轻轻哼着歌
    喜欢被你紧紧抱着的感觉
    喜欢在你的怀里睡着
    喜欢赖在你身上
    喜欢…
    就是喜欢…
    他们说
    喜欢一个人可以有很多理由
    爱一个人却没有任何的理由
    可是当你突然出现在我面前的时候
    心里面有种凭言语无法形容的激动
    却又不敢表现出来
    那又是什么理由

    祝:情人节快乐


    轉眼兩年又過去了...

    美祿與梳打餅的故事始于一封簡訊。

    - 妳在哪?我正溫習..沒看見妳..好累啊..

    在宿舍房間被室友吵得無法入睡的她,看完簡訊后彈了起來,把書本都收進包包裏,然後就奔到他們的老地方...

    ‘咦?怎麽不在?明明說在溫習...不是找我嗎?’ 剛考完第一份試卷搞得她又累又睏,在房間又無法入睡,心想可以見到他是天賜的奇跡,結果奔了下來什麽都沒有,好像被耍了一番,心情簡直就掉入谷底...

    “他呢?” 她問了正自習的朋友。
    “剛才明明還在的...我沒注意他去了哪...”
    “怎麽這樣啊?剛才傳簡訊好像很急的樣子,現在消失了?”
    “呃...我真的...不知道嘢...”

    接著她選了位子坐下,開始呢呢喃喃發牢騷...朋友也無可奈何,只有奇怪地看著她。平時耐性極強的她,今天究竟吃錯了什麽,怎麽好像變了另一個人似的...

    待她安靜下來了
    “下來啦?”
    她被那突如其來熟悉的聲音怔住了
    她轉過頭來,迎接她的是他的咪咪笑臉
    頓時,烏雲散了、雨過天晴
    他拔開她旁邊的椅子,坐了下來
    她開始向他訴苦又撒嬌
    “真的好累哦~” 然後頭就往他肩膀倒去
    他的臉也跟著往她的頭垂下

    只有天知道他們當時的思緒...

    생일축하해


  • pulling hairs...

    Thursday, Nov 19, 2009 5:09PM / Standard Entry / drama / movie

    i've been pulling my hair for 2 days...
    i'm just too absorbed in the plot...
    compared to "My Queen", "Fated to Love You" has a more dramatic plot which drives me nuts...
    probably due to the fact that "Fated" only has 1 guy, and 2 girls are fighting for him...
    whereas "Queen" is the other way round...
    both dramas' main protagonists are the female lead, though the male lead also plays an important role (the main reason i'm watching), but most of the plots focus on what the female lead is seeing and feeling...
    watching it from a female point of view, i kinda feel a lot for them...
    even though i personally like "Queen" more, but since it has a more down to earth plot, it doesn't have a roller-coaster-ride-like effect on me...
    "Fated" is a typical plain-Jane meets with Prince Charming plot, with casts that i'm quite fond of, that's what got me interested in the first place...besides, it earned quite a high viewer-ship which is another plus...
    "Fated" has made me squealing and pulling my hair in episode 9 and 10...and i'm expecting more of such encounters...
    think i'm going gaga before the end of the month...
    why does unrealistic plots drive people crazy? it should be the other way round... 

  • running business...

    Wednesday, Nov 18, 2009 2:20AM / Standard Entry / at work

    i admit i'm not very business minded, nor am i that ambitious...
    it's probably the family's gene:
    dad's an agronomist, all his life he worked on agricultural related field, or as an intermediate between locals and Japanese, since he speaks Malay quite well, which i thank him very much for if it wasn't for him, i myself would not be speaking street-Malay
    mom's a nurse by profession, but there were times when the family moved here and there, she had to quit and become my dad's support, other than being a housewife caring for the family...
    not many of our close relatives are into business...
    almost none...

    i was never interested in business, eventhough i started my college life taking business...it was not really for the interest of business, but just for the sake of taking tertiary education...
    it was when someone said the magic phrase "when you're in a business, you're superior to all those so-called expert: engineers, technicians, lawyers, even scientists, teachers or doctors, because they work under you, and you pay their salary..."
    it actually got me thinking, a lot...
    it kills a lot of brain cell to run a business, just like a chess game, you arrange your manpower, and you lead them, you may lose some, you may gain some...

    other than a sharp brain, business nowadays require good networking and public relations...
    it's a tougher world today than how it was 10 years ago...
    many people go into business with the purpose of making money, but if everything was that easy...

    these few days i ran some chores for the Japanese Food Stall...looking for some items that were out of stock from our usual suppliers...
    i even made phone calls to KL to reach some suppliers, but delivery arrangements were just too difficult and costly for small and fragile orders...

    i am very thankful that a supplier did point us to one local wholesaler that they deal with, which actually had what we wanted, it's a very helpful act, and normally people aren't very helpful these days...
    he could've just proceeded with our order and made air-freight delivery which would cost us a lot, but instead, he gave us a local contact for our convenience...
    of course i understand they would have their own dealings in between, but still, i am very thankful that he made my life easier...
    i believe this is called "karma", what goes around, comes around...with his act, he did not only created business for his business associates, and with his act of goodwill, he gave us a very good impression, and we wouldn't mind to have business with him in times to come.

    then before i left from work, i had a long chat with my boss...and the most interesting part was when he touched upon the issue on why did he choose to run such a small business in this food court...
    finally i get to see the bigger picture of his mind frame...

    with the inflow of customers every night, even if there were only 5% of the people consuming 1 set of our usual menu, he would earn enough to cover daily expenses...
    of course there would be peak and low, which is common in a business cycle, but don't forget, Kota Kinabalu does not only have it's own citizen, we also have many visitors from outstation, and foreign tourists...
    "if you can get people to consume even with the lowest number of crowd, then this business is workable" is what he said that 'wow'-ed me...
    this is how a business brain work...he's not just an aged chef...

    our location is strategic as it is located right in the middle of the city...
    although it may not be as grand as other seafood restaurants, but it is a convenient spot to be reached by foot, and people are drawn here with the various types of food available in a single food court...

    even though i may not agree with everything on how he runs his business, but i have to agree on what he said tonight...
    every night we look at the same crowd, but we see things differently...this is what sets bosses and employees apart...
    but not all bosses think like that...
    i'm glad i work here...even though the pay may not be very much, but i learn and am exposed to more that i ever did...
    my pay may have been 3 times more in the past, but i do not get as much freedom, wisdom and job satisfaction as i gained these past 6-months...

    i love having small chats with foreign visitors on food, on local customs, or anything they like to share with me, at least they gave me some input...
    i love seeing customers who are happy after having a satisfying meal with us...
    i love to see usual customers returning again and again, sometimes bringing their friends and families...
    there are fussy customers, but critics bring improvement...just take them positively...
    though some are trying to be funny...
    but then again, erase the bad, and just keep the good...
    cheers for more positivity coming our way!

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