wow...  it's been how long since i blogged?  busy life with school, wife and world of warcraft.... haha

no time to blog or read how everyone is doing.  hope everyone is well

take care

This is an extremely long blog entry, quite different from my norm of only a few sentences.  If you decide to  read this, please do not feel that I am anti-marriage, anti-gay, anti-religious.  Although Agnostic, I do have gay friends and would support their decision and struggle to marry if they chose to do so.  I myself have recently gotten married as well (oh, I didn’t blog about that?  I guess that is an entry for another time )

 

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Super Tuesday is here and people are clamoring out in droves to vote on elected officials, measures, potential laws, etc.  In California, of particular interest is proposition 8. 

 

For those of you not aware, California Supreme Court ruled that homosexual couples can legally marry instead of simply filing for domestic partnership.  This has allowed them full rights as a married couple instead of only some of the rights as domestic partnership entails (http://www.law.ucla.edu/williamsinstitute/press/rightsobligations.html).

 

Proposition 8 is here because many conservative groups do not like the idea of gays “marrying” and feel that marriage is defined specifically as the holy union of a man and a woman.  As such, this challenges the concept of the traditional family and based on reactions by this idea has proven to be quite threatening.

 

What should be considered really should be the examination of what exactly is the definition of marriage, who defines it as such, and most importantly, should committed couples be allowed full legal rights upon entering in a “civil union.”

 

 

            Main Entry:

                mar·riage

                Pronunciation:

                \ˈmer-ij, ˈma-rij\

                Function:

                noun

                Etymology:

                Middle English mariage, from Anglo-French, from marier to marry

                Date:

                14th century

1 a (1): the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law 2): the state of being united to a person of the same sex in a relationship like that of a traditional marriage <same-sex marriage> b: the mutual relation of married persons : wedlock c: the institution whereby individuals are joined in a marriage

2: an act of marrying or the rite by which the married status is effected ; especially : the wedding ceremony and attendant festivities or formalities

3: an intimate or close union <the marriage of painting and poetry — J. T. Shawcross>

 

Looking at the accepted definitions (not counting the new definition for same-sex marriage), the historical meaning of marriage derives from religious and cultural ideals; two people joining into a union for the explicit purpose of procreation and sustaining a family.  However through common usage, the term of marriage can simply mean the joining of anything (i.e. a marriage of colors, flavors, odors, ideas, etc.).

 

Based on these cultural and linguistic definitions, can homosexual marriage be accepted?  A simple objective answer would seem to be yes.  Two people that love each other, joining together in a union to spend their lives together; two people figuratively joining together, blending together to create something new.  The more subjective viewpoint comes when looking at the idea from cultural and religious perspectives.  By tradition and by religion, a man may only take a woman to be wed.  The extent of this is even written in the Old Testament in the Book of Leviticus where it is explicitly stated what a man may enter into relations with (no animals and no men… it also tells us not to eat animals with split hooves, but who’s listening to that?). 

I have a feeling that many people, even if they have a problem with homosexuality, probably don’t truly have a problem with a gay couple living together.  Additionally I believe that people also wouldn’t have a problem with committed homosexual couples receiving the same full legal benefits that traditionally married male-female couples receive.  This is the exact reason no one really challenged the idea of a “domestic partnership” that was created for the sole purpose of allowing same sex couples to receive certain legal benefits.  Because not all legal benefits are allowed under that title, it is still not truly an equal designation.  Had the agenda been to solely push equality for all, then I really don’t feel there would be much of a debate.

 

Gay Americans just like everyone else have been brought up in a society that utilizes the terminology of “marriage” to signify a unity of committed individuals into a lifelong relationship.  There are grooms, and brides and best men, and bridesmaids, and a cake, and everything else that goes along with a typical marriage ceremony.  This is where the problem arises; an unpopular minority seeking the whole nine yards from a conservative majority that shuns them on moral grounds.  It’s a very bad position to take, an almost unwinnable scenario.  Again, it’s all about the whole nine yards.  If we can have equal footing and get all of our benefits, why can’t we call it the same thing?  Simply put it’s because many do not wish to redefine an incredibly old ideal.

 

My solution, though controversial in its own way would be this: exchange the terminology of marriage to a blanket statement of “civil union.”  By removing these terms “marriage,” “groom,” and “bride,” from the legal and political lexicon you remove sex and gender from this landscape.  Anyone that chooses to enter into a civil union enters into a relationship that has all legal benefits and pitfalls as those of the former traditional marriage.  Many would decry this as a desire to destroy marriage and exterminate its existence.  But let me assure you that it does not.  Again, all of the traditional aspects are there, all rights to benefits for parties involved are there.  The only things missing are the terms that people fight for on a purely conservative and/or religious level.  Doing this, the state absolves itself from the controversy as it shows true acceptance and equality.  Recognition of a marriage under God and the Church becomes a completely separate fight and one that conservatives can feel free to deny. 

 

 

again, thanks to www.rottentomatoes.com, i am able to plan a weekend movie outing with the gf.  ashes of time redux was out in theaters this weekend.  since i hadn't seen it since the mid 90's and she hasn't seen it at all, i thought why the heck not.

such a remarkable piece of work.  intricate scrīpt, inspiring actors, great visuals...

been such a long time since i had seen it, i had completely forgotten the story line...but considering how intricate it was, i don't think i ever understood it until today.  additionally i didn't realize it had anything to do with legend of the condor heroes until i saw the references to lords of the east, north, and west...hehe

Working as a teacher for the past few years, i realize that people forget that scientists generally have a wicked sense of humor.  This time of year, the Nobel prizes are awarded, but so is the parody award...the Ig Nobel Prize

http://improbable.com/ig/winners/#ig2008

here are a few of my favorites based on titles and subjects of research.   from physics, medicine, nutrition, and best of all, chemistry  :)




PHYSICS PRIZE. Dorian Raymer of the Ocean Observatories Initiative at Scripps Institution of Oceanography, USA, and Douglas Smith of the University of California, San Diego, USA, for proving mathematically that heaps of string or hair or almost anything else will inevitably tangle themselves up in knots.
REFERENCE: "Spontaneous Knotting of an Agitated String," Dorian M. Raymer and Douglas E. Smith, Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, vol. 104, no. 42, October 16, 2007, pp. 16432-7.
WHO ATTENDED THE CEREMONY: Dorian Raymer

MEDICINE PRIZE. Dan Ariely of Duke University (USA), Rebecca L. Waber of MIT (USA), Baba Shiv of Stanford University (USA), and Ziv Carmon of INSEAD (Singapore) for demonstrating that high-priced fake medicine is more effective than low-priced fake medicine..
REFERENCE: "Commercial Features of Placebo and Therapeutic Efficacy," Rebecca L. Waber; Baba Shiv; Ziv Carmon; Dan Ariely, Journal of the American Medical Association, March 5, 2008; 299: 1016-1017.
WHO ATTENDED THE CEREMONY: Dan Ariely

NUTRITION PRIZE. Massimiliano Zampini of the University of Trento, Italy and Charles Spence of Oxford University, UK, for electronically modifying the sound of a potato chip to make the person chewing the chip believe it to be crisper and fresher than it really is.
REFERENCE: "The Role of Auditory Cues in Modulating the Perceived Crispness and Staleness of Potato Chips," Massimiliano Zampini and Charles Spence, Journal of Sensory Studies, vol. 19, October 2004,  pp. 347-63.

CHEMISTRY PRIZE. Sharee A. Umpierre of the University of Puerto Rico, Joseph A. Hill of The Fertility Centers of New England (USA), Deborah J. Anderson of Boston University School of Medicine and Harvard Medical School (USA), for discovering that Coca-Cola is an effective spermicide, and to Chuang-Ye Hong of Taipei Medical University (Taiwan), C.C. Shieh, P. Wu, and B.N. Chiang (all of Taiwan) for discovering that it is not.
REFERENCE: "Effect of 'Coke' on Sperm Motility," Sharee A. Umpierre, Joseph A. Hill, and Deborah J. Anderson, New England Journal of Medicine, 1985, vol. 313, no. 21, p. 1351.
REFERENCE: "The Spermicidal Potency of Coca-Cola and Pepsi-Cola," C.Y. Hong, C.C. Shieh, P. Wu, and B.N. Chiang, Human Toxicology, vol. 6, no. 5, September 1987, pp. 395-6. [NOTE: THE JOURNAL LATER CHANGED ITS NAME. NOW CALLED "Human & experimental toxicology"]
WHO ATTENDED THE CEREMONY: Deborah Anderson, and C.Y. Hong's daughter Wan Hong

dammit... last night i was surfing www.rottentomatoes.com checking out movies to see with the gf.  saw that  sukiyaki western django was playing at laemlle's in pasadena so headed out there to catch it.  stupid me, i didn't check the day that i was looking at, so when i got out there all the movies were different.....  :(  so sad.  i'm a huge fan of takeshi miike.  oh well, i guess i gotta wait to find the video