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  • Attention Ladies-Quote from my phillipine sis Mykan's Wise Word

    Monday, Jun 23, 2008 11:10AM / Standard Entry / Members only
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    Quote from my phillipine sis Mykan's Wise Word

    Attention Ladies

     IF A MAN WANTS YOU

    If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. 

    If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

    Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. 

    Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. 

    Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

    Slower is better. 

    Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

    If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve 

    then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

    Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. 

    Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself

    a year later for staying when things are not better. 

    The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

    Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. 

    He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,

    Why would he treat you any differently? 

    Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

    Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. 

    If something bothers you, speak up.

    Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. 

    You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.

    Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has 

    more education or in a better jo b. Do not make him into a quasi-god.

    He is a man, nothing more nothing less. 

    Never let a man define who you are. 

    Never borrow someone else's man.

    Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

    A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. 

    All men are NOT dogs.

    You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. 

    You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about

    ba gg age... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship 

    You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists

    of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. 

    Da tin g is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

    Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your 

    always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

    Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. 

    Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

    Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another

    RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.

    They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate 

    them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Entry comments (3)

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  • moonchild72
    posted on Monday, Jun 23, 2008 1:26PM [Report]
    It's a GREAT piece of information, isn't it? :)
  • agnes82
    posted on Monday, Jun 23, 2008 12:19PM
    Well, thx, Lian, this is from my nurse sis Mykan, she's the real wise, haha~~~
  • lianngaihte
    posted on Monday, Jun 23, 2008 11:52AM [Report]
    Agnes, hmmm i should say i really like da blogs. it great and really inspiring.....keep posting...

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