I was having one of those nights couple of nights ago. And it came to my mind about family....... I dont know why but i supposed i'm excited about my trip!! Or i'm thinking of someone i know....
Ok, let starts with this(some of you might not agree, but i'm not asking for your opinion... : )
Family.... Family sucks!!! But no matter how sucked they are.... they are still family. They are the people you have in this life time. We dont see them after this life.... My mum always telling me, blood is thicker than water, you cant cut the water nevermind the blood!!!!!
I used to compare my family to my friend's, it seemed to me that my friends family are more "functioning" than mine. But as i grow older(must be the age), i find theres nothing more than i want but my family. For me, to be able to get close to my family, i have to stay far away from them. It might sound crazy, but its true!! Before i left for London, God knows how many disagreements i had with my family! Believe me i dont miss that at all!
As age catching up, i realised that only your family will stand by you at all times, no matter what trouble you are in or good news when you want to share with them, they will be there for you. As for mine, if its trouble, they will give me a ear full first or if its something i'm excited about, they will "pour a bucket of cold water" on me..... But hey, that's Adam family for you, you love them and "hate" them at the same time....
Without family, we are nothing. What ever they have done, good or bad to you is all in the past.
The past is our memory, the future is our life..... We keep happy memories, we put the bad ones a side.
Life is short, we do not need to hold grudges against anyone, especially your own family.... One word, Compromise.....
No one is perfect, we can only do it on certain limits, so when our limits are up, is time for others to compromise. It works like that, we take turns to compromise each other... Coz noone can actually compromise forever, We're normal human beings. Noone is perfect...
Feeling good now..... : )
