When everything else Fails You
Monday, Aug 10, 2009 10:35AM / Standard Entry
/ Members only
Often we panic when things goes wrong especially when you are a believer of a faith, in Feng Shui or something else.....it's a very natural feeling.......however we have a bad habit and that is we tend to point our finger at others for the failure we are encountering.
I need to stress that Feng Shui is not a solve all solution in life, there are other aspects that may contribute to certain problems in our life, take a look at your Bazi first, if the element of that year isn't favorable to you, don't expect anything to be good. Even though you have Feng Shuied your home to the fullest extent you might still have some issues here and there, remember that things could have been worst if you have not Feng Shuied your house or update it annually. What you can do is to enhance whatever element which is desirable for you and that is to wear certain colors which represents that element or to add accessories of a particular element favorable to you.
Another thing is to keep the faith strong and stay positive even though you are at your worst situation. Remember that negative thinking clouds you with bad omen so stay positive always or at least try hard to stay that way. Do positive things which is beneficial towards others. Yes do it even though life sucks all time for you, you need to create a positive aura around you first prior being able to tap on the positive aspects you want in life. Getting angry with staffs and throwing your temper because financially you're in some kind of trouble will aggrevate the situation further.
Instead, do up a list and ask clients about your service or what needs improvement if you're in the service line, stop blaming others and look deep into your own situation first, Have you done enough to satisfy your clients needs, are the air conditioning units functioning well? Is your food up to standard? Is your service fast? Are the staffs you employed use their common sense in many unforseen or difficult situations. Were past issues taken care of? Were there any overlooked issues?Are your clients or customers happy? Have you revamp what needs to be done, have you paid your staff well etc etc? The list is perpetual but you are the best person to analyze the overall situation. Nick the problem immediately and you will have less issue.
I've learnt thru the years that diverting your attention on something positive and totally unrelated to your business makes a big difference in acquiring a new level of persuit and adventure which eventually lead you to higher grounds. You can't have negative energy around you if you want positive results, there can be no pretence in this, it's either you get it done right or you stay in the doldrums for eternity. Listen to opinions and be unbias about new things or products even though you don't like them. It takes a little time for anyone to get adapted to new things .
If you don't give others a chance you don't give yourself a chance, if you're a believer of a faith don't ever doubt it because it is your backing bone, if you even think of doubting it you are in fact doubting yourself and your capability. Positive energy attracts a positive environment.
Another thing I've learnt is to spend money when times are bad, yes spend money. I'm not asking you to spend every single cent that you have but spend it in a reasonable amount. By spending money it means you are loosing a certain amount of your wealth by doing this you are actually minimizing the Karma that you have. That means when we loose something we are loosing some bad Karmas so good Karmas will manifest later, do this with a positive thinking. Spend your money positively not vice please. You can spend on unneccessary things as long as it isn't on vice, do charity etc or just buy something for someone.
We've always done things for ourselves, try doing it for others and you will be amazed by the happenings that is going to take place. Stop the habit of blaming others and look deep into yourselves , not only will you find that things are easier resolved but you make the environment around you positive. So it s VERY important to be POSITIVE, I know it's hard but you really need to try if you want to see good things happening around you.
Entry comments