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Big Is Good-Feng Shui
Wednesday, Oct 21, 2009 11:42PM / Members only
Sorry guys, no pics. I know it's boring without pics but I'm trying to answer your questions as fast as I can. So pics another time ok?When you buy a bed it should be big, if your legs sticks out from the other end of the bed it means it's too small. A small bed is not prosperous at all, if you want your business to grow get a bed as big as the room permits, a super king size bed is best if you have the space. If you're single and doing business, get a huge bed as well and at least a King size if not Super King. DO NOT sleep on a single bed even if you're single, you will find it tough for money to come in.It's the same with your work desk, it should be big as well, big means more money small means less money. Your work desk should also be tidy with all the wires hidden neatly. If you're a boss your table should be different from your subordinates, it should be bigger and look authoritative. You should have a high back chair so that you have support behind you. I met many bosses sitting on chairs similar as that of their office girls and staffs. If its similar than there is no difference between a boss and his subordinate and in the end you will find that no one respects you.Wearing gold is also a symbol of wealth, White gold looks more elegant but if you really want money Gold is the way to go. Erm..... you do not need to wear gold the size of a clock around your neck though but having them around you is good enough.Obviously a bigger wallet or purse is better than a small one but make sure you have money stashed in it. Earlier this year I mentioned about having either a Gold or Silver wallet/purse to bring in money luck. For mens wallet try getting those wide type which fits the $1000 note nicely, reason is because if you can fit in twenty of such bills you would be ehem.....rich????Remember to put in all the money bringing symbols and charms in your new wallet before you even use them and when you give someone a new wallet/purse make sure you have at least some money inside, its bad luck to give someone an empty wallet/purse. Please remember this.I personally like large watches with above 40mm diameter dial maybe because I'm getting older and have astigmatism but its actually a fashion statement now with big dials. Try to get at least some gold on the watch, it does make a significant wealth symbol. The other thing you can add on to your fingers are gold rings and bangles. As the saying goes, when you look rich you are rich at least to people who doesn't know your background :-)But its' the truth....if you drive a big car the first impression to your clients is a big wow, if you ride a bike and is a big boss, it's rather hard for someone to believe that you're a boss unless you're well known so being BIG is sometimes good. -
Healing Others
Wednesday, Oct 21, 2009 11:50AM / Members only
An acupuncturist who operates near my house has been doing this service for some years, he charges a minimal for his medication only other than that his patients usually gives a little more in token "Ang Pow" or the traditional money wrapped in red packet. He mentions that his father was critically ill at one time and so was his wife. He did a lot of healing for his patients and the more he did the faster his two family members recovered. This acupuncturist is very serious in his work, his ultimate goal is to cure as many patients as possible and not because he does it for profit making, he sincerely wants to help. So his work actually paid off for his father and wife's condition.Another person that I personally knew had a streak of family ill luck, three of the family members died rather untimely but the youngest is doing well because he sells insurance and has done many claims for his clients. So helping others in some way really helps oneself.I have always been told by my Gurus that giving medication and to help others with medical condition is making merits for oneself, in other words we heal ourselves of our own medical problems. It may not be how most people see it , it may not come in the form of a medicine and by taking it you get completely cured. It may come in another form by which you may have to undergo an operation but have better results after that.Most patients who go to Healers or Doctors expect miracles to happen, these people even with great skills are not Gods and cannot always do miracles which is expected of them . Most events in our lives that happens are either because of our own Karma or the Karma's of our parents ( That is how the Buddhist put it in lay man's term) The only way we can lighten this burden is to lighten the burden of others . Most people who after seeking a doctors or Healers advice almost never return with a gesture of appreciation. I know because I was one 15 years ago.My Guru was in ICU for 20 days recently, the only people who went to his aid were those who hardly seek his help while those who always looked for him did not even know what has happened to him. I wonder sometimes if we are still human.Based on what I see or know of people who has always had a heart in helping others, even though they may not be rich, even though their lives may not be as perfect as others have expected it to be. They are definitely spiritually wealthy and have the support of many true friends. I know of many wealthy people but the majority of them are not always happy.We can all do our part to help those in need, there is nothing to loose but a lot more to gain. -
Creating Good Luck- Feng Shui
Wednesday, Oct 21, 2009 12:38AM / Members only
My teacher Lillian Too once said that there are many frustrated geniuses in the world, so it's always better to choose to be lucky than to be wise if there is a given choice. Lillian always mentioned that she has always been lucky.Creating good luck isn't very difficult if you care to try, of course not everyone of us share the same degree of luck, some are luckier than others while some doesn't seem to know what luck is all about. Do you know of someone who seems to be unlucky all the time? Someone who always runs out of cash? Someone who's life seems meaningless?Someone who has a streak of family bad luck ? If you do than take note of what is surrounding them, their activities, their life style, their character, their image and most of all how they perceive things in general.When I meant having bad luck I really mean BAD LUCK ! If you have a life, enough money to pull thru, reasonably good health, friends who are there to help you and a family than you are probably having a reasonable life so there is really nothing to complain about.Good luck can be created by first looking at yourself in the mirror, everything begins there. There is no such thing as an ugly man/woman just lazy ones, every baby is born sweet and beautiful it's the growing up process and how much a person looks after themselves which is what they are at the present. There is really no one to blame except oneself.Those whom I've personally known and is having a hard time are always physically and emotionally depressed, they always look haggard, listless and are always pessimistic about everything. Before even embarking onto a task they already have negative thoughts about it. It's like surrendering before you even start fighting.In my older blogs I've written about visualization, visualizing something before embarking onto it is an initial step to the road of success. Battles are easier won when you programmed yourself towards a certain goal. Call it psychology or a state of preparation or whatever, this method works for all that you know.It's easier being a woman because when you put on make-ups and perfumes and dress like a princess, all you get will be good praises and people looking at you but if a guy puts on make up and even dresses to his nines his boyfriends would always remark "Hey Bro...you some kinda gay or something?" Guys in the old world are supposed to look tough and rugged, doesn't even matter if you're bald as long as you have the six packs and look like a hunk you're it....they don't even care if your face looks like a moon crater....it's supposed to be Manly.....I'm not saying a guy should doll himself like a woman but complexion be it man or woman plays a huge role in having good luck. Again Lillian Too once said to me that having a good image and looking good brings fantastic luck and is good Feng Shui. Lillian isn't slim nor is she the sexy sort but she sure looks wealthy, sharp and very chic wherever and whenever she goes even at home. That is one reason why she is so famous and successful !I mentioned a few times in my previous blogs that if you have flat moles on your face and shoulders you should remove them asap, moles on shoulders represent burdens and flat moles on the face is bad luck. I was vain enough to remove these and honestly it really works after all the unwanted moles have been removed. DO NOT remove popped moles...seek a professional before you intend to do it. I'm only talking about removing flat moles here. Go to an aesthetic doctor to do it. There are lots of things you can do if you want good complexion, seek a good aesthetic doctor and your money would be well spent. Personally I'd prefer to look young and well groomed rather than to have wrinkles.Read about the latest fashion and keep up with the trend, if you can't beat them join them ! Seriously...you tend to look more into the mirror when you are hyped about your image, it's just like a car enthusiast, he would make sure that every angle of his car is perfect and the car is running in tip top condition. Vain is healthy...it beats drinking, violence or vice ! There are lots a guy needs to learn from a woman when it comes to make up...just ask your girlfriends. Sunblock cream helps prevent pigmentation and skin damages cause by the suns ultra violet, you don't sag easily too. There is too much to talk about this...just ask a woman and she will teach you what to do about your face.When your looks are done, check your residence, office or shop. If either is always in a mess, you can forget about good luck. Most people like giving excuses about their messiness due to work...as long as it is untidy you will only accumulate negative energy, even if you look like a prince or princess it's not going to bring you any luck. It's simple , just tidy up your desk and put stuffs neatly and properly kept even under storage.Make your bed and change the sheets regularly, if you leave for work with the bed all messed up it just shows that you will do the same with your work. Luck just like money love to be clean, when you have a clean environment plus good image, money will definitely follow suit.Vice attracts very negative energy, if your aura isn't strong and your luck is down it could be rather serious. Some people can do anything and still have good luck, these are only exceptional cases, if you're not one of these people than it would be advisable to do something more positive.The Chinese have a reputation of being selfish in sharing, they keep skills being afraid that if they share others would be better than them. Sharing is one of the best merits anyone could ever do. When you share it makes you better as it forces the best in you to be able to be even better than before. When you share everyone benefits, when you don't your mentality is also being compromised. How could one be lucky when they keep everything for themselves ?When a person is happy, luck usually follows. The looks of a person gives others the impression about them, you can't lie and try to be rich or lucky, it's either you have it or you don't. Luck changes with a persons appearance. The looks on a person's face reflects clearly about it's character. The usual saying goes :"What is in the heart reflects on the face"We may not have the same kind of luck like some celebrities but we can create luck by making a difference in ourselves and the way we live life. The choice is up to us. -
What Merits
Friday, Oct 9, 2009 11:46PM / Members only
The Chinese has longed had traditions and customs for almost everything, I have always asked my grandmother when I was a little boy why was it necessary to have such a bang whenever there was a Chinese funeral. They have a so called brass band playing loud marching like music accompanying the casket to it's burial or crematory grounds. I never had any convincing answers even until the death of my grandmother. When I asked my dad he too did not gave me any assuring answers. When I got older some elderly people told me that all the things that went with the funeral was for merit making. I asked what was merit making. They said that it was to enlighten the soul of the departed and that he will have a smooth journey to heaven. So I questioned, why would someone do merits for another when he has already passed away, in what way would the departed benefit from such an act? What if the departed was a murderer and had all his life done nothing but vice and lead a negative life....would all these merits benefit the departed?In real life if someone committed a crime, he would be sentenced depending upon the seriousness of the crime itself, nothing anyone can do would lighten his criminal act, it is only he himself who would bear the degree of the crime and accept his punishment. So back to the so called merits done for the departed....will they really be freed from their sins that they have committed just because merits has been done for them?I've heard from many of my close friends and people about their encounters and abuses they have experience in their lives, most of them said that the people who abused them never came to a good end. I believe it's true too, you get what you give, even though the events my have happened many years ago and some people may say that God is unfair to let such people off when they are still suffering the agony while the culprit gets away scot free.Whether there is a God or not or whether it is fair or unfair, I always believe that there is always a cause and effect in everything that takes place. it may not happen now but it will happen later because when something is activated it will react to it.People are born different, different mentality, different egos, different motives and different backgrounds, all these makes someone to be what they are as we are brought up and being instigated by the nature of it. Ultimately we still have the will of choice, we can choose to do things in anyway we want it to be.There is no right or wrong just good or bad.The Story Of AngulimalaAngulimala or Anguliman was a child who went thru much misunderstandings and abuse by his family and even his own Guru thus he became outraged and turned himself against the world, he started killing anyone who gets into his way and cuts off their fingers to make them into a a garland which he wore.One day he saw the Buddha walking along his way and immediately tried to attack him, after several attempts in vain he prostrated before the Buddha and followed the life of an ascetic just like his Master. Even after he has become a monk and repented truly,people still recognized him and one day attacked and killed him. Prior his death the Buddha asked him " Were you angry when they beat you up?" Anguliman said " No Father, when I killed people I did not know what I was doing, similarly they too did not know what they were doing"Even upon ones sincere repentance no one escapes his karma, however Anguliman upon his death has attained nirvana and became one of the best known Arahant(Arhats)I believe in doing merits when you are alive and that is to do things within ones means but to do it sincerely. There are many people who are more unfortunate than us and to do merits is to help as many as we can. Help in the right manner, help with common sense, help so they can help themselves. Giving or lending money blindly is not helping but encouraging bad habits to form, donating blindly to any entity without first finding out how and where the money is being distributed can be very demoralizing.When my grandma passed away there were no brass band although a grand traditional event took place, it was quiet and peaceful throughout the procession, quite unlikely for someone whose roots went back all the way to the last emperors era but it was quiet. My dad's was even quieter. Of course the usual rites were carried out but nothing of the loud type.I met a lot of good people in my life especially those who have passed away, till this very day their memories stays intact and vividly clear. If their impression to me was so clear and good, I think that they have accumulated good merits in their life here already. We only want to remember what is good don't we ?Ignorant is not an excuse whether it is intentional or not. No law in the world would overlook someone for being ignorant, you break it you pay for it. -
Hong Kong Experience
Tuesday, Sep 15, 2009 11:03PM / Members only
Just been really busy with work and traveling.... And..... I just came back from my first ever trip to HK. Initially I always had a very bad impression about HK coz I heard so much about the people's attitude towards customers....erm....that was like 20 years ago??? In my mind the only good thing about HK was it's food....But last week's trip there was a really eye opener especially for being there the first time.The shopping at Causeway Bay was actually a ladies haven for clothes, rows of streets with some small shopping mall stuck to the corners of a building were just awesome....Well not for me though coz there isn't really any boutique for men !!! But comparing it to S/pore, HK sure beat us flat in terms of Fashion, Price and variety. There are also big shopping malls where they sell the branded stuffs.....Hahaha....I managed to get myself 2 pairs of DKNY Skinny Jeans at a good price just next to Excelsior Hotel. You don't get to see the latest fashion here n S/pore.Well...not so soon...The setback about going to HK is that you can't afford to get Diarrhea coz it's so damn difficult to find a toilet there, you can't just use anyones toilet be it the restaurant or shops unless you buy or eat something there and there are no public seats on the streets at all. Man....you need to walk and walk and walk. Guess I'm not a great shopper after all. All the bad reviews I heard about HK retailers were untrue. The sales people there are very friendly MUCH MUCH more friendly than those in S/pore, at least they smile genuinely and the HK girls I saw in those boutiques were..... WOW !!! BEAUTIFUL!!! They really dress themselves to the nines and they are very young probably about 22 to 26 and they just look Fabulous!!! They just have the style and they really know how to make themselves look great even at such a young age.The Men in general are Much better looking than Singaporean men.... I'm being impartial with my statements but hey really have better complexion and have that sense of image thing in them. I was observing how they look and how they dress up, even the average ones looks better than us..... no wonder I don't have any second look from any female HK girls :-(( Coz their men there are all so cool and good looking . I need to do a complete makeover asap.Food in HK is FANTASTIC !!! Hands down to the cooks there. There is no way S/pore's food can be compared to HK except maybe for some stalls here. Price is cheap and you get the best freshly made whatever you order...Thats how great the food there is. There is just too much to mention about HK's food, nothing seems to taste bad at all....well so far I haven't tasted anything bad there.Generally everything there is cheaper than it is in S/pore and I think my stay there was a little bit too short. You need at least 10 days or two weeks in HK to be able to shop and enjoy your stay, no wonder my friends use to save up and go for a shopping spree in HK every now and than.If you're talking about general cleanliness, S/pore is still the best, streets are clean, housing estates are clean and perked up where else in HK no one seems to bothered about building maintenance...their housing apartments seems so run down and the streets are quite littered BUT restaurants and shopping interior is as clean as it is in S/pore. One thing about large shopping malls I've been to had cleaners mopping the toilets each time a user uses the cubicle or throne, so it's super clean.....S/pore's public toilet is horrendous but than again if you had diarrhea you can be assured that you won't shit in your pants coz toilets are everywhere.I went to Mong Kok where the Gold Fish market is at....this is my favorite place of all as I am a pet and fish lover, they sell all sorts of exotic fishes and reptiles plus dogs and cats, two streets on the left and right has all the stuffs you want. Wow....if I lived in HK this would be one of the places I would frequent most.I am really looking forward to go back to HK, this time I must be well prepared and start looking for Men's shopping boutique and probably do a makeover first so that I'm in par with the HK Men and maybe some nice beautiful girl will take a second look at me :-P.Thank You Hong Kong !!! - More entries >
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elle75posted on Sunday, Nov 1, 2009 2:52PM [Report]Vince, how was the check up? I hope everything goes okie; you'd been at this for too long and I understand how frustrated it must be.
Well, I'm sure the hair cut wasn't that bad...certainly not that dramatic, otherwise, you can credit it as...rockstar look :-) I cut my hair about 2 inches, put serious layers on it because I want to keep it as straight as it can be!!!
Honestly, if I can't have the M6 or X6, I'm fine with my current especially it's 4-wheels drive, safer and I like the smooth, comfort and luxury. Sport car is great but I think I'm too old for it...hey, switch to manual, I still smoke a 911 easily...just did earlier...hehehe. -
peacheyposted on Monday, Oct 26, 2009 12:44AM [Report]Mr. P's researched into minoxidil and decided to give it a try. It hasn't been a month yet and nearly every night this past week he's asked me to examine his scalp to see if I could spot new growth. I think I do. Cloud hairstyles are really best left to the younger folks, imo. -
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peacheyposted on Tuesday, Jul 7, 2009 10:36AM [Report]"cheap" as they may seem, we don't see too many ferraris or lambos or maseratis around here. Wonder where they're all at. Probably in their garages. lol. I'd like a simple, easier-to-own Porsche. I don't know all the models but I think the 911 is sufficient. ;)
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peacheyposted on Tuesday, Jul 7, 2009 2:03AM [Report]Single guy can think about fast cars, chic clothes and travels. Mommies don't do that stuff but we do think about chic accessories that are way smaller than Modenas. I'm glad hubby isn't into cars although he has been talking about Priuses lately. I really don't want to give up my Merc suv.
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elle75posted on Sunday, May 17, 2009 5:48PM [Report]Hey Vince :-) You're getting pretty good at compliments these days...hehehe, THANK you!!!
I don't have that many boots but I really got my money worth out of them. Maybe I will gather the photos of my many looks with boots to show you guys one of these days. You will be amazed what I wear with them. It's really hard because CA weather is not cold enough or rain enough and a girl just need to be super creative. I actually can't pull of the sexy look like most girls that wear boots.
I know I know, guys don't have much options with footwear. I completely understand why you can only wear them one way. Guys really don't have much to work with and I sympathize. I mean you guys only have a few styles when come to shoes and it can get tricky. Btw. I love Metallica too but yes, you don't want to walk around like you stuck in the wrong era. You're in the business that images playing a very important role. I mean there're days that I show up to work in my torn off faded jeans and my Rolling Stones with a tongue sticking out t-shirt and feel pretty great. But if I have to stand in front of the room trying to make a point, it would help if I'm in my crisp dress shirt and powerful heels. Clothes do help making a statement isn't it? But I know you can relate to this, when you look good, you feel good right :)
I'm anything but a fashion guru Vince. I break all sort of fashion rules for sure and I don't follow trends...almost against it really. I don't mind dropping $300 bucks for a white dress shirt but I know it will pay for itself, it's all about fit yeah :) I remember a quote from Coco Chanel, "Fashion is like architecture, it's about proportion..." I think that whatever work for you IS the trend :-) I guess I have a lot of fashionable friends....like you! I'm really terrible at compliment people actually so I hope my message don't sound too...odd but I mean what I say...
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peacheyposted on Saturday, May 16, 2009 10:51PM [Report]I've never been bitten by a dog. Whew. We've owned a few (or brother brought them home for pets). Pitbulls are too menacing but I know it's all about how it was raised. In the states, we occasionally hear how a pitbull has mauled a child to death or in a serious way. These dogs hadn't necessarily grown up in an aggressive environment so the attack's often out of nowhere. Wouldn't want that risk being near one or owning one.
I'm a flats girl. Heels don't work well on me. ;P -
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Andrew Wangposted on Wednesday, Apr 15, 2009 12:08AM [Report]Wow! you've been too way more places than I have... and you're not even a residence here lol.
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Andrew Wangposted on Sunday, Apr 12, 2009 9:07PM [Report]Haha yea, the chao praya river is right next to my building.
I live in state tower; Wake up seeing it everyday.
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