In a time and age such as this,people communicate in many various ways.communications sometimes become obscure.In this blog,I desire to assist others in understanding relations;as well as how to form good relations with others.
when 2 people meet[or,communicate by email or other means],they mean good to each other.they desire a friendship that may last alifetime.they desire to be happy.
sometimes,good and bad people connect.when that happens,many sorrows,and other negative emotions surface.hate takes the place of love and friendship.it is at[or before that point] to restructure the relations.
Here is an example that is MOST common for many people.2 people meet each other.one is good,one is not.the good person desires friendship and tries to keep the friendship.she[as an example]thinks he is a good person.she likes his personality and haracter.
he,on the other hand,is being friendly to attempt to selfishly take her for himself.he does not care about her or her feelings.he will use everything to attempt to keep her.he will lie,try to seduce her,try to bribe her with gifts,and other methods to accomplish his objective.he will even use "sweet" words to attempt to con her into his trap.
she is bombarded by his methods that she does NOT like.being kindhearted,she attempts to explain she does not desire him for anything but a friend.he continues in his advances hoping she will weaken.in this exchange of incompatible issues;they begin to argue and become more distant.he Still continues in his advances.
After a while,she decides to break off the friendship.she is weary of being attacked by his advances.she explains she no longer desires him even as a friend.He has No concern for her desires or wishes.he wants her to be for himself in a deeper relationship.he continues his advances.
she recives a phone call eventually.he tells her he is "sorry" for offending her.she falls for his lie.he tells her he wants to meet her at a park.she agrees;but,it is too late for her to even be his friend.he goes to the park;but,she never arrives to meet him.she thinks by doing this,he will understand she is not interestedc in meeting him;and,he will not contact her anymore.
he continues his advances.she becomes finally angry and screams violent words to him;as well as threats.he is criminalistic,so,he sees this to be a weakening.he thinks if he continues,she will give up hope of escaping him,and let him do what he desires with her.
at this time,he becomes dangerous.he follows her everywhere[even to her house].eventually,he makes threats to her that if she will not become HIS girlfriend,noone will have her[this is in extreme cases of criminal only].
he attempts to cause her much misery.he intices her to make promises[knowing she will not keep them],tell him anything he desires to hear;then,tells her it is all her fault for making him behave as he is behaving.to him,this is his excuse for behaving in that way.he will also blame her for his misery,losing hios job from being hurt,and other things.he is attempting to invoke as much sympathy as he can from her so she will try to comfort him.if she DOES comfort him,he has completed his objective.
as with ANY criminal,he searches for weak points in his potential victim;then uses these weaknesses to get what he wants.that is how a criminal operates[I know that because I created methods of investigating criminals.I also infiltrated them and learned everything of ALL of their techniques].
this criminal will use everything he can to try to torture her with sympathy,misery,or anything he can use as a weapon.
these types of criminals are various.some are "loners" who operate for their own gain.some are "salesman" who kidnap females for prostitution.some are psychos who kill their victims.still others are among hundreds of different types of criminal.ALL are dangerous.
it would take hundreds of pages and many hours of writing to explain some of the things criminals do;but,the main thing is:if the person REALLY loves you,he would not make you miserable.
sincerely,
Robert Hocker
