GLOBAL HARMONY

I love to meet new friends worldwide.Friends are great.they makelife beautifull.

I have friends worldwide;but,I also experience times when a friendship may excalate into a big ball of chaos.

here are some of my experiences with global friends:

*I have many understanding friends who are very kindhearted and gentle.I care for them very much.I cherish very good friends.

*I have some[actually,very many people] who are very friendly;but,things get out of perspective. most of these are very good female friends.I have explained many tiomes I do not desire any relations;excepting a friendship.In the most difficult cases,these female friends do not accept anything short of marriage.they desire marriage for many reasons.firstly,they know if I take them in marriage,I am very serious.I have never been married in the 53 years of my life.

no matter how much I explain I desire just a friendship,they always continue to persue a marital relations.some become very angry,some become very saddened and hurt.I do not mean to do eighther to them.

many of the females[I have had over 500 who desired marriage;but,only about 30 remaining] are from very difficult and poor lifestyles.they desire to marry ANYONE who will take them to their country and support them.they are desparate for marriage and freedom.

others desire to be married,become a citizenof the country;then,get divorced knowing they can freely live in another;yet better country.

how do I deal with them?indeed,some of them[actually many]I DO desire marriage with.I usually only keep them as friends until I can establish a very special relationship with them.

I ALWAYS specify I desire friendship with them ONLY.I am very carefull what I say to them.I NEVER give them a reason to think I am changing my mind about our friendship.To do so would cause very much chaos in a relationship.this would cause sadness and controversy.It would also ruin my reputation.

Th only girlfriends I keep are the ones who do not mind me being with many othe girlfriends.I tell them about the others and even allow them to  email each other.that way,I do not have to be overly concerned with too much ill effects of my own relationships.

sincerely,

Robert Hocker

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