Today, I got to thinking about viewing members pages, and that's when I realized I may look like a stalker to some members.  I'll tell you what I'm thinking, and you decide!

 First, sometimes when people blog, and I leave them a message about the blog, they reply in the blog itself.  Then, I'll get a message that there is a new comment for that person's blog.  When I check the blog, most of the time, it is someone else leaving a comment.  So finally when that person responds, I may have been to their page 15 times already.  If people check who has visited their page a few times in one day, I seriously look like a stalker.  

Now, alot of members will answer me in my guestbook, and so I am able to delete that blog from my subscrīption.  No stalker behavīor required.

Then, some members, including myself, (I must get better about this) don't always reply to comments made in their blog, and so when the notices come that there is a comment in a blog that I have commented on, the constant page checking cycle goes on until I finally admit that noone is replying to me.

Also, sometimes when I read a blog, I know just what I want to say, and so I begin to leave a comment when I notice that the person who visited before me said exactly what I wanted to say, or once I type out my comment, I realize how stupid my comment is, and I erase it and leave feeling like a loser.

And finally, I get the notices that someone has been tagged in a picture, or added an album, or has changed their profile in some way.  I ALWAYS look at these.  Rottendoubt is tagged in a picture almost everday.  He must think I'm psycho!   

Ok, so now this brings me to the question:  How can I avoid looking like a stalker, and still be able to see the reply, pictures, or new profile details?