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  • June 9, 2008 Monday

    Tuesday, Jun 10, 2008 2:37PM / Standard Entry / 中文 Chinese / Members only
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    我感激這裡AnD朋友常常不厭煩的閱讀我母親的病情, 分擔我的情緒。最近我的媽媽健康狀況一落千丈﹐我更珍惜我們的談話片段。今天下班去醫院訪母親﹐她響亮的聲音已不在﹐換來是柔弱語調。

    我問媽媽是否疲倦﹐所以聲音細小。媽媽說她想扮斯文﹐ cool。她的回答令我啼笑皆非。

    聽姐姐說母親十分放不下我沒有家。我對婚姻沒有憧憬。要令她放心﹐我在姐姐們家居附近看住宅。今天告訴她我最近在姐姐家鄰近的公寓落訂購買。媽媽立刻展出微笑。雖然這購買還沒有成功﹐提早告訴母親是正確選擇。

    給母親一杯牛奶﹐看見她含在口內不吞下﹐她說要吸三口氣才有力量吞下。聽畢﹐我便心痛地哭了。媽媽說看見我哭﹐她也心痛。

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  • lou
    posted on Friday, Jun 13, 2008 12:08PM
    Lanvin, 謝謝妳為我的媽媽祈福。 要陪一位親人完成生命最後旅程是很寶貴的經歷。 當中, 我明白什麼是無條件的愛。 人的忍耐力可以是無限或者是束緊。 和母親談話主題可以廣泛地包括私人秘密至世界大事。

    Crane, 做母親真是世上最艱難的職業。

    Thank you, Jaine, for your compliment.  There has never been communication barrier between my mom and me.  BUT, we have talked so much with each other these past six months that it is equivalent to thirty years of total conversation with my mom.

    Thanks Mindy, Jane and Lisa - hugs are the most therapeutic medication to cure sorrow.

    That is right, Dreaming, this is life and we all have to go through it.

    晶晶和Lifar, 謝謝妳們的慰問。

    Thank you Joanne, for always here to confirm my action of caring my mother.

    Nancy, Chinese has a saying that "遠親不如近鄰", living close to siblings is the best way.
  • lanvin3028
    posted on Thursday, Jun 12, 2008 10:22AM [Report]
    Lou,我真不知道該如何安慰妳,妳的母親真的很勇敢也很偉大,真希望所有的神仙都能保佑她平安,早上起來拜佛的時候我會為妳母親祈福的!妳也一定要堅強!相信陽光總在風雨后!
  • crane
    posted on Wednesday, Jun 11, 2008 4:17PM [Report]
    看着好心酸,你母亲真是一个坚强的人。
  • Jaine
    posted on Wednesday, Jun 11, 2008 6:15AM [Report]
    aw hugs lou
    you are doing your best for your mother and she knows that.
    I know I have said it before but I mean it - you are a great daugther, one any mother would be proud of.
  • janechu
    posted on Wednesday, Jun 11, 2008 1:20AM [Report]
    *hugs* I agree with JS. I wish there were more than words to show our support to you and your mom. *hugs* take care!!!
  • Dreamy
    posted on Tuesday, Jun 10, 2008 9:26PM [Report]
    it's sad to hear you write this.......... but this is life.. everyone goes through it.... hang in there
  • lifan_tseng
    posted on Tuesday, Jun 10, 2008 9:24PM [Report]
    妳們倆都要好好保重喔!!
    加油~~
  • LISA.L
    posted on Tuesday, Jun 10, 2008 6:44PM [Report]
    don't cry, lou! we're always here for you. take care. *hugs*
  • JoanneSanderson
    posted on Tuesday, Jun 10, 2008 4:27PM [Report]
    I wish I could give you more support than just words. You are there for your mum and she knows that, take comfort in the fact you are doing all you can. Take Care
  • MindyG
    posted on Tuesday, Jun 10, 2008 3:53PM [Report]
    I wanna give u a hug. That's all I can do.
  • jingjing
    posted on Tuesday, Jun 10, 2008 3:31PM [Report]
    保重。。。希望你妈妈好起来!
  • skinph55
    posted on Tuesday, Jun 10, 2008 3:25PM [Report]
    Don't cry.  It is a good idea to stay near to your siblings.  Though I live on a small island, my brother and sister together with their family are all staying within 5 minutes drive from me.

    It is just that brother relocated to NYC two years ago.

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