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  • June 18, 2008 - Wednesday

    Thursday, Jun 19, 2008 11:32AM / Members only

    After months of rapid health deterioration, my mom returned to God’s home this afternoon.   I will miss my mom very much, but knowing she is now free from pain and is in God’s care, I am happy for her.   I am very grateful to her dedicated doctors and hospital staff, who provided the best care to reduce her pain to the minimal.

     

    今天下午我陪伴母親完成她最後的段路。我溫和地刷她的頭髮﹐輕輕告訴她我會很捨不得她﹐但是我為她高興﹐因為她再不需要受痛苦。天主的安排是很恰當的﹐現在有Ebony陪伴媽媽, 我不會再操心。

  • June 9, 2008 Monday

    Tuesday, Jun 10, 2008 2:37PM / Members only

    我感激這裡AnD朋友常常不厭煩的閱讀我母親的病情, 分擔我的情緒。最近我的媽媽健康狀況一落千丈﹐我更珍惜我們的談話片段。今天下班去醫院訪母親﹐她響亮的聲音已不在﹐換來是柔弱語調。

    我問媽媽是否疲倦﹐所以聲音細小。媽媽說她想扮斯文﹐ cool。她的回答令我啼笑皆非。

    聽姐姐說母親十分放不下我沒有家。我對婚姻沒有憧憬。要令她放心﹐我在姐姐們家居附近看住宅。今天告訴她我最近在姐姐家鄰近的公寓落訂購買。媽媽立刻展出微笑。雖然這購買還沒有成功﹐提早告訴母親是正確選擇。

    給母親一杯牛奶﹐看見她含在口內不吞下﹐她說要吸三口氣才有力量吞下。聽畢﹐我便心痛地哭了。媽媽說看見我哭﹐她也心痛。

  • Office Humor 辦公室幽默

    Saturday, Jun 7, 2008 5:38AM / Members only

     

  • Latest 近況

    Monday, Jun 2, 2008 2:13PM / Members only

    Given my mom’s current health situation, we have received a few advices from friends and professionals that we should admit our mother to a nursing home.  My mother’s wish is to be at home no matter what.  In the past six months, my sisters and I set our mother’s health as our top priorities; we all take turns to provide 24 hour care.  Our stress is beyond descrīption when we still have a full time job to do.

    My mom is admitted in hospital this week.  While under professional care, she fell and broke her hip on Thursday.  Her current condition is not suitable for any surgery.  If we opt out surgery, mom would be in much more plain and she will be in bed 24x7 until she passes on. 

    We wish our mother will survive tomorrow’s surgery.  I am not blaming anyone for my mother’s injury, but it proves that even under professional care, my mom is still injured.  I hope those “caring individuals” will give us a pat on the shoulder instead of accusing us of not doing the best to care for our mom.

    因為母親已經朝向人生最後的一段道路﹐ 許多專業朋友或醫生認為母親住進入收容所或老人院是最理想的安排。他們也說了一些令我難堪的說話﹐一句傷害的說話﹐可以令我耿耿於懷。但是母親的意願是回家。 他們可知道如果我們安排母親住老人院﹐她一定會絕食。

    我們五姊妹在這半年內﹐每事以母親為前題。 讓母親享受有如二十四小時照顧﹐那壓力和配合不是局外人可理解,除非他們有我們的經歷。

    這星期母親再一次進入醫院﹐在專業環境和專業工作人照顧下﹐母親跌斷了臀骨﹔明天需要做接駁手術。 事實上﹐母親現在的情況是不適合做手術﹐ 但是不做的話﹐ 她前景是更壞。現在﹐我想反問這些朋友和醫生﹐為什麼我的母親在專業工作人照顧下還是會受傷?我不怪任何人﹐只是想證明這是命中注定。

  • Step Aside Fido, Fish Can be Our Next Popular Pet 妙極!

    Thursday, May 8, 2008 4:17AM / Members only

    Comet is a two year typical goldfish that can play football, basketball and even limbo dance under a bar.   He is trained by Dr. Dean Pomerleau using the well-proven technique of positive enforcement: each time Comet performed a move correctly, Dr. Pomerleau gives him some food.

     

    It all got started when Dr. Dean Pomerleau from Pittsburgh cannot give his son and daughter a dog they wanted because his wife was allergic.  After they won a goldfish at a fun fair, Dr. Pomerleau decided to see if he could make their new pet a little more exciting to make up for not having the dog.

     

    Prior to Comet, Dr. Pomerleau has trained a three year-old calico fantail he’s named Albert Einstein.

    一條從遊樂場贏回來的普通金魚居然能在兩個月訓練內成為球類健將和連步舞高手。妙極!

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  • posted on Wednesday, Jul 2, 2008 12:11PM  [Report]
    We are with you during this difficult time. Hold on to the promises of God.

  • posted on Monday, Jun 30, 2008 5:33PM  [Report]
    heads up girl! hang in there... ;o)

  • posted on Monday, Jun 30, 2008 5:26AM  [Report]
    that's a nice thought about your mother being with your father and dog.
    I am sorry she was in such pain in the end. I'm sure your love and support made a big difference to her last days.

  • posted on Sunday, Jun 29, 2008 11:57AM  [Report]
    oh, my heart sank as i read your comment. you are a very strong girl with such strong faith. yes, your mom is no longer in pain, and she is with your dad and dog. =) take care, lou. and may sweet memories of your mom always warm and comfort your heart whenever you miss her.

  • posted on Tuesday, Jun 17, 2008 12:53PM  [Report]
    不管怎樣,好好的陪伴妳母親,讓她快樂點!
    加油~~

  • posted on Monday, Jun 16, 2008 9:09PM  [Report]
    lou, how 's your mom now?

  • posted on Monday, Jun 16, 2008 4:11PM  [Report]
    2008年真的是一个让人伤感的年份,无论是中国还是世界。

  • posted on Friday, Jun 13, 2008 3:45PM  [Report]
    : )

  • posted on Wednesday, Jun 11, 2008 5:30AM  [Report]
    I like that one too - I think I like the amiable smile on the sharks face. =)

  • posted on Tuesday, Jun 10, 2008 3:04PM  [Report]
    Louise,

    You are right about that. I just added a conversation with an elderly lady. It confirms it.
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